FOLLOW THE MESSAGE NOT THE MESSENGER! – The Recap | (originally aired 6-12-13)

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Follow the Message NOT the Messenger! –  The Recap

 

Originally aired:

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

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Last week the cast of Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi celebrated 4 years of Uncensored, Unscripted and Unapologetic conversation!  The 4 Year Anniversary Show was a fun celebration while looking back at KiKi, Peepin Shaun and Sporty Angel Edutaining™ us each and every week.  The first show of year five was focused on the education side of PDA and centered around questions like, “Why do people gravitate to the negative?”, “Who are the Good and Bad leaders?” and “What are the characteristics of followers and leaders?”  Follow the Message NOT the Messenger gave the listeners an in depth look into who people follow and WHY they follow them.  KiKi’s inspiration for the show involved social media and Listening to the archives is the only way to find out how.

If you know anything about KiKi, she always wants to give perspective to the listeners, so let us begin with the definition of follower:

Someone who demonstrates allegiance to a person, doctrine, cause or the like; It often has the implication of personal relationship or deep devotion to an authority or leader; firm loyalty to a party, form or person that is biased on emotion rather than loyalty

Sporty Angel and Peepin Shaun agreed that even though this was a lengthy definition, it was spot on with their opinion of followers.  KiKi amazed us at the ease at which people can be manipulated and led and gave us a simple experiment that can be performed to confirm how people will follow blindly.  After challenging us to try the experiment ourselves, KiKi focused on how/why we are drawn to negativity by defining something known as, “negativity bias” and how to combat it with the 5:1 Ratio.  Listen to the archives to find out how the 5:1 Ratio works and how it can help you to not get overwhelmed with negativity.  KiKi advised that we should always be aware of our natural reactions and the forces in our own brain that actually work against us.

Mr. Know it All (Shaun) gave an interesting insight to how the media capitalized on a single news event that propelled us to where we are today with Reality TV.  Do you remember where you were June 13, 1995  (aka the notorious Low Speed chase of OJ in the White Bronco)?  The way Shaun tied this all together makes you say, hmmm….. The relationship between media, advertisers and the public proves that the public is a gullible group being led and manipulated daily.  LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to hear KiKi tell the story of how a woman received a new car from as a result of her carjacking being caught on tape.

Then there was a ***BREAKING NEWS*** AMBER ALERT – Sporty Angel’s niece had a friend that as of showtime been missing in the Detroit Area for 6 hours.  Listen to the archives to find out how this story ended!

Social media is the perfect demonstration of negativity and society.  A person could post a positive scenario, picture or random thought and would get a few hits; now on the flip side, this same person is now upset and spewing negativity in a post, picture or random thought they will get more hits or comments than ever before.  What upset our Host most was how people will express their disapproval of a negative post or pictures by re-posting the negativity.  In doing so, look how easily you have become a follower and perpetuated the negativity.  Anybody else agree that was too easy?  KiKi believes that this is why corporations are hiring psychologists and the like to help delve into the consumers head and turn it into big dollars. Then then it happened….I, Zenikki the intern, actually opened my mic and spoke on this topic, but you have to LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES! to hear me.

The next question KiKi posed to the crew was for them to list their top three GOOD leaders and why.  The leaders were similar but the reason of selection is as different as each cast member. Everyone agreed that Martin Luther King was a great leader, but LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to hear the different reasons why each picked him.  All types of names were being thrown around in the chat room from President Kennedy to Jesus were named as good leaders.  The conversation then lead to the characteristics of leaders, and some were charismatic, self-confident and self-aware.  These characteristics are not what define a good leader but most are known to have personalities that draw people to them.  Ultimately a good leader should lead you to a better you.

This week’s “Drink of the Week” was a perfect fit for the show.  KiKi had the honor of naming the drink and the ingredients spark a conversation of its own.  Sit Yo Ass Down is a blend of the two most negative igniting alcohols I have ever come across.  Looking at the picture alone, you might agree it is a nice looking drink but don’t let the good looks fool ya! Listen to the Archives to hear the crew and chat room reactions!

After a drink like that, it is only fitting to ask what your top three BAD leaders are.  Mr. Know it All, Sporty Angel, and everyone in the chat room picked the Bushes. Yup! Bad ole’ George W., his father and the rest of the family by association are considered bad leaders.  A bad leader is someone who leads people and leaves them in worst shape than when they found them.  This describes some well-known bad leaders, specifically cult leaders as these people have led others to commit murder and suicide. Speaking of leaders…KiKi and I had a interesting exchange involving Master P, but you can only hear it by Listening to the Archives!

Facebook Shaka joined the show and everything goes to hell.  (he’s not called “The Resident Voice of Unreason” for nothing!)  Facebook Shaka does not believe he is a good leader, so LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES and hear something about strippers not following him home.  In my opinion, the true negativity in Facebook Shaka’s life is his broken down “Cricket phone”!  Once we were able to get Shaka connected again he blurred the line between following and stalking Peepin’ Shaun!

The “Ask PDA” letter this week was a perfect example of how someone will follow a dream, no matter how unrealistic it is.  The writer, “Unrequited Love” received a pretty much unanimous response to her letter, and hopefully she will move on from the man who has told and shown her that he could never give her what she wants and needs.  If you want to know WHY he can’t….yup, LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES!

Next week show steps up the drama a notch when “UP FOR DEBATE: Abortion, Adoption and Sperm Donation“ is the topic! Make sure you tune in to hear how it turns out!

~~Zenikki~~

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Drink of the Week | 6-12-13

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Sit Yo A$$ Down!

This week’s “Drink of the Week” is a barn burner!!! Since this week’s topic is “Follow the Message and NOT the Messenger” there is NO DOUBT what message our Producer has for all of the people who just blindly follow the leader with no regard to where they are being led!

Gather your ingredients, set a reminder & TUNE IN for a great discussion at 7p PT (9p CT/ 10p ET) on Playing Devil’s Advocate! 

Sit Yo Ass Down

 

1/2 oz Grain Alcohol

1/2 oz 151 Rum

1/4 oz Cinnamon Schnapps

Instructions:

Mix the Grain Alcohol and the Rum together in a shot glass.

Add the Cinnamon Schnapps last to give the shot a nice red color. Serve.

Happy 4th Anniversary PDA! – The Recap | (originally aired 6-5-13)

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HAPPY ANNIVERSARY PLAYING DEVIL’S ADVOCATE™! –  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

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This was a special week on Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi, the crew celebrated 4 years of Uncensored, Unscripted and Unapologetic conversation!  Big, big shout out to KiKi, Peepin Shaun and Sporty Spunky Angel for Edutaining™ us each and every week.  Even though the show has changed and evolved over the years, it has remained my favorite thing to do every Wednesday night at 10pm Eastern.  Listening to the archives is a must to hear a medley of all PDA’s opening songs over the years!  Thank you KiKi and the crew for entertaining the masses with great, uplifting, eye opening and mind blowing topics that gets the conversation started.

I was amazed to learn that in 4 years Playing Devil’s Advocate™ has missed only one, yes one show! That is pretty awesome! Peepin Shaun was not part of the crew during that first broadcast in 2009, but he did call in.  The show was about interracial relationships and he just had to give another caller his opinion. Listen to the archives and hear exactly what had Mr. Know it All so fired up that he had to call in!  Even on a special night like Wednesday night BlogtalkRadio could not keep it together.  I know the “Repeat Offenders” feel my pain, BTR is always tripping.  KiKi recalled the first night PDA shut BTR down…Of course it was a sex show that went so hard, BTR went black.  KiKi and the crew had to do a follow up the next week.  You know you have to Listen to the Archives to hear the clip that caused the shutdown.

Sporty was also a listener back in 2009 and apparently her only reason for tuning in was all lust.  The next clip was from the “I Am Not My Hair” show. I had to go back and listen to the entire show after hearing that clip, because the then resident Angry Man, James Hannah, was so heated about the African American issue on light and dark skin.  I also heard my girl Tonoa Bond in that clip, from 2010, doing her thing and stirring the pot.  Playing Devil’s Advocate™ has changed and grown in so many positive ways over the years. The first incoming call of the night was from our host’s cousin, Mark Tillmon.  He was on the panel for the “Real Athletes of PDA” show back in 2011 that started a Bromance that is still in effect today. To hear how KiKi’s cousin put her on blast, LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES..

Shaka surprised us all by showing up early in the chat room, starting trouble as always.  The next caller was featured on the Help Me, Help You aka the “Do Gooder” show that focused on people doing good things in their communities.  Dr. Maurice A. Lee came through to show KiKi love and encouragement on a successful 4 years.  He also expressed his appreciation for KiKi allowing he and PDA’s resident medical expert, Dr. G to inform the masses on how to receive low to no-cost medical and prescription care.  I just love the way PDA entertains and informs the world about what is needed to sustain a long, happy life.  LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to find out information on Dr. Lee’s next event.

The producer showed up and showed out for the anniversary show!  The “Drink of the Week” was called The Devil’s Right Hand. (Trust me after a few of these you will care less what the left hand is doing!) This DOW is right on point so gather your ingredients, Listen to the Archives and sit back and enjoy the ride!

This next caller was a true blast from the past for KiKi.  When she was touring and on the road with the late great, Bernie Mac, this caller was the one who kept her in line. Ms. KiKi even confessed to Mama Mac that she had not been a good girl.  The 2011 year brought a plethora of different topics spanning both ends of the spectrum.  One of KiKi’s favorite shows of that year was the “Adult Entertainment” show.  The clip featured Mr. Marcus (who is currently in the news) ironically answering a question about STD testing.  This clip, led to a few more interesting callers. LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES! to hear the hilarious comments of comedian, Rodney Perry and there was even a visit from a long lost friend, KIKI’S AZZ!

The visits from past and present friends and family just kept pouring in.  The next clip was from a 2011 show on Transgender Relationships and focused on a letter from a listener who doesn’t care if his women once had pee pee parts or not!  Now you know this took the conversation to another level!  This caller’s opinion and the comments of Rodney Perry, KiKi and the crew are not to be missed!  As things moved on to 2012, KiKi finally played the clip from “Real Athletes of PDA” show and believe it or not KiKi met her match against these gentlemen.  Anthony Dorsett, Jr., who was one of the panelists from that show called in and shared his favorite moment which sparked a “proposal” from KiKi!  LISTENING TO THE ARCHIVES  is a must, then comment on what you heard!

More discussion of 2012 brings into focus my boy, Mr. Know it All who never ceases to amaze me. Only Shaun would know what a Blumpkin is and how to perform it.  KiKi, Sporty and I all agree that this is a very strange act, but I am not surprised that Shaun is the foremost expert on it. I mean, if memory serves me correctly, Shaun was the one on the Sex Olympics show who liked the word saliva?  The only response I had for the next few clips was WOW!  The clip from the “Ex-timonials” show left me speechless and ready to let the ghetto side of Chicago come out!  You cannot miss the Elmo interview, so please LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES and once you can breathe again, please comment…The surprises, the twist and turns didn’t stop, Facebook Shaka joined the show after just being released from the joint!

I was thoroughly entertained with this 4 Year Anniversary show and I am excited for the next 40!  So, set a reminder now so that you do NOT miss the first show of year 5!

~~Zenikki~~

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 Sporty Spunky Angel   Peepin’ Shaun

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Drink of the Week | 6-5-13

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The Devil’s Right Hand

 

4 years ago I had the craziest idea that I could do a talk show. I had no previous radio experience, didn’t know how to start or what to do, but being who I am I didn’t care…I DID IT ANYWAY!

On June 3, 2009 Playing Devil’s Advocate™ aired for the first time and I had NO IDEA that this thing would take on a life of it’s own and it would be standing strong FOUR YEARS LATER! 

So, to commemorate tonight’s celebration, our Producer created another killer drink! Gather your ingredients, set a reminder and TUNE IN at 7p PT (9p CT/10p ET)  for on the on-air celebration! (We have some surprises planned so you don’t want to miss it! IJS)

 

Devil’s Right Hand

 

4 oz Cranberry Juice

2 oz Black Vodka

Colored red sugar

Maraschino cherries

Instructions:

Start by rimming your glass with red sugar.

Then add ice and pour in the cranberry juice, fill about 3/4 of the glass.

Slowly pour the black vodka on top. Garnish with the cherries.

MONOGAMY: DEAD OR DYING! – The Recap | (originally aired 5-29-13)

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MONOGAMY: DEAD OR DYING? –  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

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Last week the topic on PDA was SOCIAL MEDIA SHENANIGANS and all the stunts people pull on the Internet. This topic gave birth to this week’s topic on Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi, Monogamy: Dead or Dying.  Playing Devil’s Advocate’s host penned the book “The Other Woman’s Code of Conduct”, divorce is at an all-time high and Scandal is the number #1 rated television show; all these things and more beg the questions, is monogamy even an aspect anymore in relationships? Should we re-evaluate the way we view relationships? Listen to the archives FIRST, then comment!

…The word “Monogamy ” means One Marriage

Is anyone today with one person forever?  I have friends who have been married 3 times and I am only 40.  So, Ms. KiKi had to ask the main question; Is monogamy dead or just on life support? Sporty and Shaun agree, surprisingly, on the answer to this question.  The question actually had a regular chat room participant leave the chat room with their feelings (and tears) on their sleeve and we had only just begun! Wow!  (It had me thinking…if this is what the rest of the night was going to be like…I can’t wait!)  Now back to the topic.  One of the things I LOVE about PDA is that I learn something every Wednesday night and last night was no different.  I learned that there are different forms of monogamy. Yes, monogamy has categories and labels…who would have thought?!  So go get your pen and paper ready and Listen to the archives because you need to be ready for THIS class.

First up was Social Monogamy, which refers to two partners living and surviving together. Basically if you are living and paying bills with only one other person you are in a monogamous relationship.  The most interesting thing to me about this is that this person does not have to be of the opposite sex!  Do most of us equate monogamy with the “Happily Ever After” we were spoon fed in our youth? Which brings us to Sexual Monogamy, which refers to a sexually exclusive relationship, now this is where the question is raised that if this is even in our human nature.  KiKi and Shaun expressed excellent views on this issue.  We even discussed Genetic Monogamy! I didn’t even realize there was such a thing! After that discourse, we moved on to Marital Monogamy.. he one society focuses the most on.  Marital monogamy is of course when two people are married to each other and plan to stay that way for life. LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to hear the discussion about the different types of monogamy, and find out if the cast’s attitude changed about if monogamy is dead or dying, then comment and let us know if your view has changed.

PDA’s resident legal eagle called in to add her two cents. Ikiesha unapologetically shared her unconventional views on relationships and how she actively practices what she preaches, which led the conversation to  ”communication in relationships”.  People always say communication is key; but how many people truly communicate what they want, feel and expect?  As KiKi stated this could be another show in itself, but it was and is relevant to this type of conversation.  Back in the day, the progression of a relationship was laid out. You courted, you dated, you got engaged, you married then you possibly divorced.  Today monogamy or the lack thereof, can be directly linked to the lack of communication, with self and one another. LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to hear Ikiesha fire off what most people probably want to hear (and she broke a PDA rule in the process!)

The natural instinct of Man is to want what you can not have, so if someone told you “you can’t have sex with anyone else ever, but me” naturally you would want to run break off the neighborhood! This is how the “Drink of the Week” relates to the show.  The producer’s Blue Crush is the perfect personification of “the grass is always greener”. That is how I connect the topic and the DOW.  Listen to the Archives and hear Ms. KiKi put me on blast about my experience with Chandra’s “secret” signature drink. Really, KiKi?? …I got you!

Sporty even shared a comment that someone shared with her.  The honesty of the comment temporarily stunned Sporty and me!  Both KiKi and Ikiesha agreed, if more people were that honest maybe monogamy would be alive and kicking!  Aversion to monogamy is not a new idea and humans have been bucking this concept for many years. Western society has spoon fed us this concept that is not natural to us as humans. In my opinion, Ikiesha won the “comment of the week” award with her thoughts against monogamy. The way she articulated the ridiculousness of monogamy made me, the hopeless romantic, take another look at the concept.  The next caller was interesting because she put more importance on semantics rather than the concept.  Is opening the bed also opening the relationship? Please LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES and comment below!!

As always the chat room was a show within itself.  We had many repeat offenders and a few blasts from the past.  Shout out to the best chat room participants EVER,!!  PDA’s chat room is truly a safe place to voice your views and discuss it.  The previous caller led KiKi to explain the definition Poly-amorous relationships and how that is truly our nature.  Poly-amorous simply means – many loves. By definition we love many people in our lives for example; your mother, sisters and brothers.  Is it so hard to believe that we could love many in our passionate relationships? LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES and hear how a regular offender and Shaun turn up the fires with just the mention of the word SOULMATE!

The next caller was a true blast from the past. Ms. Sassy Angel a past PDA cast member who is a woman after my own heart.  Sassy is a hopeless, sappy romantic and I love it!  Our programs are definitely tuned to the “knight in shining armor” and “happily ever after”. Since there are animals that mate for life so as human beings what separates us is, making choices.  (Can my choice to be monogamous be natural to me?)  Facebook Shaka stopped by and dropped a Top 5 that is not to be missed! This man is seriously CRAZY!  You must LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES with oxygen to listen to this one, subliminal messaging was involved.

This week’s “Ask PDA” letter again is sponsored by the Producer’s Drink of the Week, Blue Crush.  The advice for the writer,  ”I Want It All” I am sure was helpful. The comments span each end of the spectrum and Sassy and Sporty agreed in a rare moment on the Love, Sex and Relationships that was discussed in the letter. Shaka’s advice…ahem, rant over this letter is NOT TO BE MISSED! I’m Just Saying!

Next week PDA will celebrate 4 years of being on the air!!! So please join us in a BEST OF PLAYING DEVIL’S ADVOCATE!

~~Zenikki~~

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 Sporty Spunky Angel   Peepin’ Shaun

Drink of the Week | 5-29-13

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Blue Crush

 

To be perfectly honest, I am not sure how the “Drink of the Week” fits this week’s show but I just let our Producer do her thing!  With that said…This week we are discussing “Monogamy: Dead or Dying?” so I’m pretty sure the answer will be clear after taking a few sips of this week’s drink!

So gather your ingredients, set a reminder, tune in for 2nite’s discussion & at 7p PT (9p CT/10p ET) give us your two cents at!

 

Blue Crush

2 oz Dry Gin

1/4 oz Peach Schnapps

1/2 oz Blue Curaçao Liqueur

Lemon Peel

 

Instructions

Shake all ingredients with ice and fine strain into chilled glass. Garish with a Lemon zest twist.

SOCIAL MEDIA SHENANIGANS! – The Recap | (originally aired 5-22-13)

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SOCIAL MEDIA SHENANIGANS! – The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

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As our host always says “She can’t make this stuff up”!, so if you missed this week’s show you missed a truly entertaining show.   Last week the crew whipped your sex life into shape and this week on Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi the crew let all the clowns on the internet have it! This week was dedicated to all the SOCIAL MEDIA SHENANIGANS pulled online. This week’s topic was inspired by the pictures KiKi has posted in the past few weeks. There were surprise phone calls, mending of fences and a juicy “Hit List” so listen to the archives to hear how it all went down!

Up first, “inboxing”…should it or could it be used to flirt with someone you are interested in? Possibly, but as with everything there is a protocol to the way it’s done.  Now when you’re dealing with a public figure, celebrity or whatever, why do some believe that because you can inbox them you should? Or even better why do some believe it’s an invitation to their personal page to post inappropriate inbox messages and pictures. I actually agreed with “Mr. Know it All” Peepin’ Shaun that in real life some of these scenarios have happened. Ms. KiKi’s message to the ladies about being thirsty and having a low status bar is a must hear.  So, by all means listen to the archives and tell us what you think.

Our resident “Fallen Angel” Sporty was putting the people on blast, actually dropping government names and city residences. Our first incoming call was from a blast from the past Psyko! Now this is just my opinion but Mr. Psyko needs slow down on the Drinks of the Week because I am still confused as to what he was talking about. LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES and tell me what you get out of the call.  What I learned this week is people actually are thirsty enough to create fake profiles to stalk their interest online! SERIOUSLY?! Now some people were in the chat room and Facebook questioning KiKi and Sporty‘s intentions for naming names and the answer was thoughtful, concise and slightly heated.  The follow up InstaTalks story drove the reasoning home. 

Again my girl the Producer Chandra showed up and showed out with the “Drink of the Week”! She created a drink that precisely described the behavior of these online degenerates. Tomfoolery will definitely solve some of the issues that KiKi and Sporty are having. Tomfoolery for sure describes the second caller Justin…if they can drop names why can’t I?  Now Justin really went off the deep end when his girlfriend betrayed him through Facebook messages. Please, Listen to the Archives and tell us what you think about what he did!!

The chat room was on fiyah! The comments were flying in every direction and as always it’s a safe place to voice your opinion. Not all agree with our host and cast and as the disclaimer states…its ok. If you have never joined the CHAT ROOM SHENANIGANS you are truly missing out.  LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES and hear some of the more spicy and controversial comments. The comments brought out a confession from our host (take notes Sporty). Now KiKi had an interlude with someone and the story ends with “follow instructions”.  Seriously KiKi??? You know there were a few details left out of that confession, so I guess Sporty can put the note pad down.

I guess Sporty was taking notes because her confession about her Facebook fight was on point. Again she dropped government names and residences. Personally I didn’t know you could fight virtually and actually end up with hurt feelings and broken friendships, but now I know different!  PEOPLE, get a life! I happen to agree with KiKi as to why someone would post their side of the situation and KiKi and I are also obviously on the same page about these goof balls that put ALL their business on Facebook.  It takes the host to rant about these special individuals and their philosophizing cousins. So…moving on to the next caller, Dawn; who in my opinion, was getting down with the first caller and the Drink of The Week.  Bottom line, kudos to Dawn for having the balls to come on the show, being a grown ass woman and her arrow obviously hit the mark. You have to listen to the archives and hear for yourself.

This next segment was what I was really looking forward to, Ms. KiKi’s HIT LIST.  She started off with the imitators, which and I quote “…is not the highest form of flattery….Inspiration is”.  Moving down the list was a young man we’ve heard about before, who showed up drunk to a first date.  Well KiKi blasted him with screen shots and all! Wow, must not have known who he was dealing with. Maybe he was nervous, but he must step up his game! The next victim on the list is a dude who inbox’s some slick inappropriate statements and wants to feel shameful when an assistant responds instead of the intended. Come on fellas “OWN YO SHYT”! My favorite cast member the resident “voice of unreason”. FB Shaka showed up and turned it out.  Listening to the archives is a must just for Shaka and his special brand of wisdom. I think Shaka still carries a pager, SERIOUSLY!

The “Ask PDA” was brought to you by Tomfoolery, the Drink of the Week. The sponsor alone let us know the letter was a hot damn mess. This young lady is in a bad situation poised to turn toxic. The cast’s opinions followed along the same as mine. LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES, and give your advice below.

Join us next week when the cast breaks down the Art of the Introduction, because you only have one chance to make a first impression!

~~Zenikki~~

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Uncensored, Unscripted, UNAPOLOGETIC!!!

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 Sporty Spunky Angel   Peepin’ Shaun

Drink of the Week | 5-22-13

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Tomfoolery

Looks like our Producer is on the same page as out host this week and the “Drink of the Week“ truly reflects it!  There has been so much “Tomfoolery” happening on social media these days and it looks like they have found a solution to the problem!! 

Gather your ingredients, set a reminder and TUNE IN for tonight’s show:“

Social Media Shenanigans” as it will feature Ms. KiKi’s “Hit List“!!! 

Show airs LIVE at 7p PT (9p CT/10p ET)!!

Drink of the Week:

Tomfoolery

1 1/2 oz tequila
1 tsp cranberry liqueur
4 oz cranberry juice

Instructions:Pour tequila, cranberry liqueur and cranberry juice into a highball glass almost filled with ice cubes. Stir, garnish with a lime wedge, and serve.

BEDROOM BOOTCAMP™ – The Recap | (originally aired 5-15-13)

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BEDROOM BOOTCAMP™ –  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

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This week’s show was ADULTS ONLY and a welcome topic, in my opinion. Last week the crew discussed Accountability – Celebrity Edition and I came away with the same “who gives a care” attitude as before when it comes to celebrities and the goofy decisions they make.  This week was a favorite topic of PDA… SEX! Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi’s crew held Bedroom Bootcamp™ and the cast embarked on a mission to whip your sex life into shape. So breakout the pen and paper and listen to the archives for your sensory overload lesson!

Now every time PDA has discussed sex as a topic, mysteriously technical issues happen, but that never stops the show!  Peepin’ Shaun started this sensory episode with the sense of SIGHT.  Now Shaun has from time to time, raised my eyebrows with his likes, dislikes and opinions, but tonight he was very insightful.  It is common knowledge that men are visual creatures, but Shaun let us know how to enhance this visual to attract. Sight can be used by the ladies to our advantage and the little things count more. Sporty’s insight on this sense was quite helpful. However, the innovator, our host, KiKi had a laundry list of helpful hints for this sense. Voyeurism, lights and eye contact are some of the helpful hints touched upon.  So listen to the archives to find out which is the most important and why.

Next up was SOUND, which was the task of the resident “Fallen Angel” Sporty and I must admit I was looking forward to the suggestions on this sense. Sporty and the crew did not disappoint.  Whispering and commands are things I thought I was alone with. Now I know there is a whole world of people that get turned on by instructions. Now I am not sure about everyone else but I have always known, for me, that dirty talk is a wonderful aphrodisiac. Shaun actually found a site that helps in the art of dirty talk. KiKi put the offer out for anyone she’s copulated with to call in and share any words or phrases she has expressed during the act, because we all know she has a serious case of CRS. LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES and discover what KiKi never says during sex!

The producer never fails to deliver and the “Drink of the Week” she created definitely set the mood for the show. Sensuous by name and ingredients is the ultimate combination of sight, taste and touch. You must gather your ingredients and your lover and Listen to the Archives while sipping on Sensuous and let us know how nice the night was.

TASTE was next up to bat. This sensory information was prepared by yours truly, The Incredible Invisible Intern. The sense of taste is very interesting because taste engages the other senses as well. Taste is connected to sight and smell directly.  Everyone knows a bad smell will leave a bad taste in your mouth. Now applying taste to sex is not difficult to comprehend as the first thing most people do is kiss and kissing is an extremely important beginning to intercourse. The unknown is that taste can be used in many many ways in the bedroom.  Edible panties, fizzle and Fruit Roll Ups are but a few points touched upon. You must LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to find out what the phrase “Caring is Sharing” means in this capacity. I promise you will not be disappointed!!

As always the chat room was a show within itself.  Each sense sparked various opinions and comments from repeat offenders as well as rookies. The sense of SMELL was next and was prepared by the host herself.  This sense was pleasantly edu-taining.  Scented candles, air freshener and linen spray are always a plus, but stay away from floral scents.  Surprising is the scent that men flock to the most. I guess when you think about it, the scent makes a lot of sense and yes you will have to LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to find out what it is.  Over doing it with the perfumes and body oils is not a good look so Ms. KiKi suggested you stick to the pulse points. KiKi’s most important advice on the subject of smell is something every women should do on a daily basis and it is not that hard. Listen to the archives and follow suit.

TOUCH was the final sense, but arguably the most important of the senses. As always our host did not disappoint when preparing the points to touch upon.  The human body has a myriad of choices to use instead of your hands when engaging in touch and KiKi listed plenty. I personally liked how Shaun informed all that using teeth is not a bad thing if done correctly, who knew…I DID! Actually restricting the hands and utilizing a little sensory deprivation can be a rewarding experience according to KiKi.  Playing naked games, using nails even choking and spanking are some points touched upon by Sporty and KiKi. LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES, to find out how they break it all down.  KiKi’s zones was my favorite of the “touch segment” and I have listed them below. Please comment and tell me if you know what they are…if not, LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to find out!

• The H-spot 

• The F-spot

• The R-zone

• The P-zone

Facebook Shaka finally made an appearance and dispensed some “Shaka wisdom” as only he can do.  Sporty’s new segment “Confessions of a Fallen Angel” wasn’t actually a “confession” it was more of a tutorial, but you know you have to listen to the archives to find out what she said! The “Ask PDA” submitted by “No Sex in the City” was a hot mess!  In my opinion, this writer was looking for sympathy and the lack of information given in the letter was a dead giveaway. If I had to speak on just what was given she still would not like my answer. LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES, then tell me what you think by commenting below.

Join us next week when the crew discusses the topic of Social Media Shenanigans, I can’t wait!

~~Zenikki~~

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Drink of the Week | 5-15-13

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Sensuous

 

Our producer never fails to deliver and the “Drink of the Week” she created will definitely set the mood right for tonight’s show “Bedroom Bootcamp™“!!

Gather your ingredients, set your reminder, get something to take notes and at 7p PT (9p CT/10p ET) CLICK HERE to TUNE IN for THE BEST BOOTCAMP you will EVER attend!!

 

Sensuous

3 oz Champagne

1 1/2 oz Cognac

3 dashes Bitters

2 tsps of Brown Sugar 

Instructions:

Get a chilled flute glass. Put the sugar in the glass and add Bitters to soak the sugar. Pour the Cognac and fill with fresh Champagne and garnish with a lemon slice.

ACCOUNTABILITY: Celebrity Edition – The Recap | (originally aired 5-8-13)

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ACCOUNTABILITY: Celebrity Edition –  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

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The topic was a potentially heavy one last week when the crew discussed RIGHTS ARE RIGHTS…RIGHT?  on Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi . The show explored the struggle of certain groups, the similarities, differences and comparability of said struggles.  This could have easily been a heated and heavy debate, and at times it did drift in that direction, but in true PDA form the crew kept it edu-taining. Staying true to form, this week’s topic kept in line with the debatable flow. PDA’s producer inspired this week’s “ACCOUNTABILITY – CELEBRITY EDITION“, because she cannot tolerate public figures who claim to “keep it real” or “keep it 100” and “false flag” all day long. So when you listen to the archives don’t be surprised by all the heated commentary!

Peepin’ Shaun kicked off the show with some advice for our host Ms. KiKi  who apparently started a social media riot with some pictures she posted.  Surprisingly, this is one issue “The Fallen Angel” Sporty Spunky Angel was not willing to have Ms. KiKi‘s back on! (to get the low down on it all, yep you gotta listen to the archives!) Moving on to this ACCOUNTABILITY topic, the crew was asking; are celebrities accountable for their words and actions and should they be? The part I was looking forward to the most was; “who is responsible when these idiots go off the reservation?“ Listen to the archives to find out how Peepin Shaun , KiKi’s and Sporty felt about the subject.

Before we can move forward, let me begin with the definition of Role Model.

A person whose behavior, example or success is or can be emulated especially by younger people; A person who serves as a model in a particular behavioral or social role for another person to emulate.

The first question asked was, “who believes celebrities are role models?” (based solely on this definition alone) The answers and opinions were a plenty, and one might even say…shocking!  I think it may be time to break open the record books because Sporty and Shaun actually agreed on something.  Ms. KiKi’s commented at one point that as a public figure you are now public property and should behave accordingly. This made me wonder…should there be some level of responsibility on a celebrity? therefore lending credence to the old adage “to whom much is given, much is required”?  These first minutes of the show were juicy and full of opinions and on some level I believe they all had valid points.  So after you LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES please take a moment and share your opinions here!

I’m sure Ms. KiKi was not ready for the caller she took next. This call came in from the 916 area code and after having listened to his call more than 3 times, all I can take away is, you gotta love ‘em. Now I ask you to please, please LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES and tell us what you think the caller from the 916 area code was saying.  Kudos, to the host for deciphering the caller’s hilarity and finding a point to his rambling.  The next question on the chopping block was who is a good role model? This question lead me to one of my own questions…what exactly is Sporty’s deal with the POTUS (President of the United States). This question and Sporty’s answer certainly fired up Mr. Know-it-All, Peepin Shaun! He felt strongly about holding celebrities on a pedestal.  Again Sporty’s question, centered around the POTUS and lead Shaun to elaborate and wonder, what is the deal?

As always the chat room was a show within itself and full of opinions on the subject.  Comments flew about celebrities like Rihanna and Chris Brown and are they role model material.  The producer, Chandra put on her philosophical hat in the chat room and laid down a thoughtful insight on the subject.  Next up was KiKi’s hit list. (hopefully it will be a new segment soon) The first victim on KiKi’s hit list was pseudo-gansta rapper,  Rick Ross. If you happen to live under a rock and didn’t know, Mr. Ross recently lost a multi-million dollar endorsement deal with Reebok for his lyrics depicting and glorifying rape. Listen to the archives for the passionate commentary then post your comment below.

I just love the producer, because her “Drink of the Week” every week is right on point.  ”Stuck on Stupid“ is the perfect mix of crazy and fire that will have you doing dumb crap and not giving a damn. The caller from the 916 area code is the perfect example of the DOW effects you.

Sporty and Shaun gave their two cents on Rick Ross and then it led KiKi to another so called hip hop artist Lil Wayne, who of course gives this discussion plenty of material. Mountain Dew maybe sweet like syrup, but that is not the type of Syrup he raps about. I think he may have been “sippin’ on sizzurp” when he FINALLY issued an apology it showed he believed it would be ok to say what he said because he references a lot of historical figures in his songs. Is anyone else laughing?  Sporty got so heated on the subject that she reached out and tweeted both Ross and Wayne about their recent idiotic behavior while she was live on air! LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES, to see how the tables turned and the consumers came under fire. Only KiKi and the crew could get you to swallow that pill.

Next, KiKi ran down a list of controversial lyrics from Too Live Crew to Chief Keef.  Her commentary was not just for Hip Hop artists, she blasted all types of celebrities have leaped of the deep end, namely Russell Crowe, John Mayer, Alex Baldwin! They have said some way out crap and while Ms. KiKi respects their freedom to say what they want, there is one thing she has no respect for (find out what it is!). Even Beyoncé and a former Ms. USA turned reality star made an appearance in the conversation. I was surprised to learn she was a favorite of the producer. Wow, Chandra REALLY?! Review the evidence by LISTENING TO THE ARCHIVES then let me know how you feel on the subject. Plus there are a few more on KiKi’s hit list that you have to hear, even a PLASTIC SURGEON!

This is the first time that I can remember that the “Ask PDA” letter had nothing to do with the show topic.  This week’s letter actually had a sponsor, Stuck On Stupid, and the DOW is a perfect representation of the letter’s subject. If you have to write in to a show for advice on your Half and Half issues laid out in your letter, then you need some friends. I’m Just Saying!

Set a reminder for next week’s topic… BEDROOM BOOTCAMP and don’t forget to tune in….I can’t wait!

~~Zenikki~~

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Drink of the Week | 5-8-13

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Stuck On Stupid!

Since we are talking about celebrities and their idiotic ways, our Producer created a “Drink of the Week” that may explain why they go off the reservation so often!  Tune in to “Accountability: Celebrity Edition” this week and hear what the cast has to say about holding celebrities accountable for their stupidity!

In the meantime…gather your ingredients, click HERE, SET A REMINDER & TUNE IN at 7p PT (9p CT/10p ET) for what proves to be a great conversation!!!

Stuck on Stupid

1 oz Vodka

1 oz White Tequila

3 oz Cranberry Juice

1 oz Pineapple Juice

Instructions

Mix together in shaker, strain over fresh ice into a chilled glass. Garnish with a Pineapple slice.

Rights Are Rights…RIGHT?! – The Recap | (originally aired 5-1-13)

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RIGHTS ARE RIGHTS…RIGHT!! –  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

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Last week was so entertaining with the MEN TELL ALL preview on Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi because the regular crew was joined by a HOT HOT panel of men. If you attended the event you know I’m telling the truth!

Current events brought about this week’s topic of RIGHTS ARE RIGHTS…RIGHT? The cast broke down and mulled over athletes coming out of the closet, inappropriate catch phrases used by prominent organizations and so on! Of course this is a serious topic but, they put the PDA spin on it and edu-tained us all. Before you listen to the archives we have a PSA, one of the crew is BUI (broadcasting under the influence), we let you decide who!

The show kicked off with shout outs and thank you’s to all who helped pull together the “Men Tell All” event. Ms. KiKi  just wanted to give some love back.  This week’s topic was inspired by KiKi’s nephew who was involved in a heated debate surrounding this issue. Actually this discussion started a few shows ago, Secrets, when news was just starting about a sports figure coming out of the closet. The entire cast was pretty much on the same page when it came to prominent figures revealing their personal business. (If you listen to this show on a regular basis, you know it’s a rare moment when Peepin’ Shaun, “The Fallen Angel” Sporty Spunky Angel and Ms. KiKi totally agree.) Do you believe Jason Collin’s announcement was calculated and had nothing to do with owning his sexuality?  We could not leave out Kerry Rhodes and his “assistant”. Listen to the archives to find out how Peepin Shaun answers KiKi’s straight or gay questionnaire.

Breaking news of the death of a former Kris Kross member, Chris Kelly was announced with a heartfelt RIP…and then it was back to business.

The first and maybe largest group to fight for rights was Women back in the 1800’s.  Not to minimize any struggle but is it fair or correct to say that civil and gay rights piggy backed off the women’s rights movement? Did one movement allow the others to materialize? Would civil rights have come to fruition if the women’s movement had somehow failed? These questions and more sparked an interesting debate and opinions from the crew.  To hear the conversation; you know what you have to do…LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES!

We had some newbies returned and stir it up in the chat room again this week.   There was a plethora of opinions, as always, and it sparked excellent conversations.  One of the most engaging conversations was “a struggle is a struggle right?”  Ms. KiKi of course broke it down and pointed out that as black women these are aspects that are noticed on sight. No one knows you are gay because you walk in a room, unless you are perpetuating all known stereotypes. Can you truly call these movements/struggles the same? Don’t get me wrong all groups and more have experienced some form of persecution from society have all been excluded by the government.  LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to hear the very interesting debate and then comment below your opinion.

The “Drink of the Week” was inspired by the event and the folks who couldn’t hang with Chandra’s excellent bartending.  The “Lightweight Punch” was created for all those who should heed the saying “If you can’t hang with the big dogs stay you a** on the porch”. Listen up POUND PUPPIES!

Next up was the issue of segregated proms, STILL happening today in deep South Georgia. This is shocking to me that this is not being forced upon the community, but the community itself.  The school district has not sponsored the prom for many years. It is the parents passing the ignorance down from generation to generation, in my opinion. Actually one or two of the crew rationalizes this behavior or at least that’s how it sounds to me. To hear for yourself and decide LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES, then let me know with a comment. Our “hate seat” occupant in the chat room again set the host off with their perception of the conversation. Both Shaun and KiKi went in after Sporty read the happenings in the chat room.

It’s that time of the night when the rest of our regulars call and weigh in.  Rocky Miller is not sure how to label the behavior, but he agreed that once you, as man, lie down with another man,  you are no longer a straight man! Freedom of speech was tossed around and one of the cast members had a problem with the groups that want to be recognized and respected as one thing or another, but don’t want to respect other’s right to have an opinion and comment on it.  Then, surprise surprise…cheating was mentioned and a listener asked,  ”Why are women more upset if their man cheats on them with a man than with other women?”  Ms. KiKi gave it up 100% on that answer. This conversation was felt so deep that I believe I witnessed a PDA first!  The feelings were so strong that it had FB Shaka rethink his Top Five! Oh my, you have to LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to hear how it all turned out!

The “Ask PDA” letter this week was so JUICY it sparked a poem, a rant and great one liners.  The writer, Is He or Isn’t He?, is clearly in denial and consciously overlooked ALL the clues. True, this is only my opinion, so by all means listen to the archives and then give yours. Next week’s topic somehow involves “entertainer”, Rick Ross! FOLLOW US and find out how!

~~Zenikki~~

© Playing Devil’s Advocate™

Uncensored, Unscripted, UNAPOLOGETIC!!!

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Sporty Spunky Angel   Peepin’ Shaun

Drink of the Week | 5-1-13

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Lightweight Punch

 

In light of her bartending at this past weekend’s “Men Tell All” event in Atlanta, our Producer saw fit to create a “Drink of the Week” that reflected her opinions of the drinkers at the event!

With that said….This week we are discussing “Rights are Rights….RIGHT?” and I think some people should have exercised their right to say NO to her drinks!  Nonetheless, this week make sure you gather your ingredients, SET A REMINDER and TUNE IN at 7p PT (9p CT/10p ET) and join the discussion!

 

Lightweight Punch

 

1.5 oz Light Raspberry Pomegranate Vodka
2 oz Ginger Ale
1 oz Cranberry Juice
A lime wedge

Instructions:
Pour ingredients over ice in a highball glass, squeeze in lime and stir!

Men Tell ALL: THE PREVIEW! – The Recap | (originally aired 4-24-13)

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MEN TELL ALL: THE PREVIEW!! –  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, April 24, 2013

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IN THE NEWS was the topic last week on Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi and the crew discussed the hot issues of the day, but this week was so Turned Up I can’t type fast enough. This week was a preview of Ms. KiKi’s event this Saturday in Atlanta and ohhh wee if this Wednesday’s show was a preview, Saturday is going to be OFF THE CHAIN! The title of this week’s show was MEN TELL ALL! The panel for this week’s discussion ladies was just awesome; both visually and intellectually. Let me run down this abundance of testosterone that we had with us this week.  Blue Kimble: actor, Devin Lewis: ex pro athlete and current model, Shawn Lovings: Entrepreneur and finally the co-host of the event Michael McFadden: Radio Personality. Please listen to the archives and hear what these men had to say.

This week’s show jumped off out the gate. The show started with the regular crew; “Mr. Know it All” Peepin’ Shaun and “The Fallen Angel” Sporty Spunky Angel. Michael McFadden joined us at the beginning and Ms. KiKi  kicked off the questions with a good one. Can men and women truly be just friends? I was delightfully surprised at McFadden’s answer.  The parameters that he injected were interesting, for instance, if a guy wants to get with a girl and she turns him down what would happen.  Listen to the archives to find out if Peepin Shaun agrees with McFadden.

KiKi’s next question set things off! The question was, Do guys view a woman who approaches them differently than the woman whom they pursued? Devin obviously needed to get this off his chest and he meant what he said when he said “with the women to men ratio as it is YOU NEED TO IMPRESS ME!” Blue chimed in and didn’t really care who was offended because he said “its 11:00 and we are grown”! My favorite comment came from Blue as he said something like, this is a panel of educated, well groomed men with a diverse vocabulary and all their teeth. BOOM, LOVE IT!

To hear all comments; you know what you have to do…LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES!

The chat room, as usual, was full of opinions especially from our rookies.   The difference of opinion was the main discussion in the chat room as one of the rookies stirred up many responses.  Some people believed the panel was not being honest or diverse enough in their answers, but I have to disagree. As stated before these are men cut from a similar cloth, but their views were different if you were listening to the words and not interjecting your opinion into their answers.  Ms. KiKi of course broke it down and let the ladies know to get out their own way. Sporty got riled up and felt the need to let the rookie in the chat room have it with a poem and yes you have to LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to hear it.

The producer, Chandra out did herself again this week.  ”The Communicator” is the “Drink of the Week” and is a perfect fit for the conversation. I personally hope she has these on hand Saturday at the event.  That’s right The Producer will be the bartender at the “It’s Ok: Men Tell ALL!” event! Come join us and have the creator make a special one just for you.

Next up was the question of Plus Size Love. Again the panel gave it up 100% with the answers. Devin and Blue are both equal opportunity brothers as long as you keep it sexy.  Now you know when your sexy is a little off ladies so you can’t wear your little sister’s clothes that you know are 4 sizes too small. Shaun and Michael agree, but don’t misunderstand, all men are different and what a man likes he likes. It seems that men definitely like confidence on a woman, according to the panel and if she is confident, no matter the size, she can “get some”.  To hear exactly how these men broke it down LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES, then comment.

Ms. KiKi again stirred up the conversation with the question about women with all fake everything.  Devin will not limit himself by saying his woman has to be all natural as long as she looks good next to him and is not over the top he is good. Michael McFadden just wants to see the real you without all that “stuff” on. He doesn’t need you to be a different person in the morning. Now Blue’s perspective is not that he anti weave, but women have a lot of FAKE SHIT and that idea prompted him to ask a question that rendered everyone speechless. You have to LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES and hear what the female caller had to say.

It was so exciting that we did not have time for the “Ask PDA” letter this week and that was just fine, in my opinion. But I urge you to tune in next week as we discuss a somewhat serious topic, but you know we will put the PDA spin on it….. “Rights are Rights, RIGHT?“

~~Zenikki~~

© Playing Devil’s Advocate™

Uncensored, Unscripted, UNAPOLOGETIC!!!

Airs LIVE every Wednesday at 7p PST

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 Sporty Spunky Angel   Peepin’ Shaun

Drink of the Week | 4-24-13

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Our producer created a “Drink of the Week” that falls right in line with our topic “Men Tell All!!”  There is a drink for BOTH genders so there’s no room for that old “lack of communication” excuse! “The Communicator” will surely wet your whistle and loosen your lips!

 

Gather your ingredients, SET A REMINDER and TUNE IN at 7p PT (9p CT/10p ET) for what promises to be one for the record books!! 

The Communicator

 

 Ladies

1 oz Gin

3 oz Fresh Squeezed Lemonade

½ oz Elderflower Liqueur

2 Fresh Peach Slices

Instructions:

Muddle a peach slice in the bottom of a highball glass.

Add ice and remaining ingredients and stir,

garnish with a the other peach slice.

Gents

2 oz Single malt Scotch

3 oz Energy drink

2 – 3 drops Lime juice

 Instructions:

Pour into an old-fashioned glass over ice cubes and stir

IN THE NEWS! – The Recap | (originally aired 4-17-13)

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IN THE NEWS!! –  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

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Last week on Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi the crew talked about Secrets!. On this show they broke down why people keep or tell secrets, the effects and aftermath of said secrets. This week the crew decided to discuss what’s happening IN THE NEWS!  It seems once the decision was made it seems the universe said, “Well OK here you go!” and the world exploded…literally, with an abundance of NEWS! So listen to the archives to get your weekly dose of PDA’s current events.

This week’s show kicked off with one of the biggest stories of the year thus far, the bombing at the Boston Marathon. Ms. KiKi and the crew sent out condolences to all affected and injured in this tragedy.  In true PDA fashion, the question was asked… WHY? Who would do this and what was the purpose?  You won’t believe why KiKi said she would never be caught in a situation like what happened in Boston. You know you have to listen to the archives to find out why.

Next, Ms. KiKi wanted to know who sent the poison envelopes to the POTUS. I’m with her…did you really think your poison was going straight to him? Just ask Sporty Angel, the President does NOT open his own mail!  Through this story we learned that Peepin’ Shaun  is quite the conspiracy theorist (and that does not surprise me). North Korea and Kim Jong-Un’s antics was the next story and the discussion was short and sweet because who is he trying to fool? …yes you have to LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to hear the opinions and please voice yours with a comment.

Sports was next on the list.  Kobe and his injury sparked quite the conversation of course “Mr. Know it all” Peepin’ Shaun was all on Mr. Superhuman’s (his words) jock. Apparently he was not the only one because one of the regulars, Michael McFadden, was all on the Kobe train as well while Sporty  and KiKi were on the opposite side of that track.  I must say I am on the, “who cares about Kobe?” train.  The conversation prompted Mr. McFadden to call in which steered the conversation to Beyonce’ and Jay-Z’s travel plans in Cuba.  There were some really refreshing opinions on this decades long embargo.

Then it happened….BTR went HAYWIRE!!  However, it’s no surprise that the crew was able to hold it down through some really difficult technical issues. I don’t know if BTR was censoring the show because of all the political talk or what, but all kinds of strange things were happening.  These problems did not keep the PDA crew down.  Mr. McFadden and KiKi took advantage of the time to discuss their upcoming event: Its Ok: Men Tell All! This is a female only event hosted by Ms. KiKi in Atlanta. If you are in the area please register for FREE and be a part of the discussion with the ALL-MALE panel she has assembled.

To get all the information you need, you know you have to…LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES!

Once the producer, Chandra let BTR have a piece of her mind and corrected some of the tech issues the “Drink of the Week” was presented and the Producer out did herself this time. This week’s drink was dedicated to the Boston tragedy. The Boston Green Tea is sure to leave you not really caring about the news, good or bad. It’s mostly alcohol recipe will handle all of your woes. Gather your ingredients and let us know what you think!

Before we knew it, it was that time of the evening when we are joined by Facebook Shaka and he did not disappoint.  The Top 5 was “top notch” and almost made me forget the technical issues. Shaka went hard and nobody was left out. He let poor people, black people, Peepin’ Shaun and even KiKi have it in this Top 5!  Peepin’ Shaun shared some news and Sporty Spunky Angel threw in some stories she found, but when the Coolio news was brought up it took over with all its craziness.  Please LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES, comment and let us know how you feel about it.

This week’s “Ask PDA” letter once again had the team on ten! Ms. KiKi let the writer know if he continues to bend over make sure to lube up!! Only Shaka would have a different opinion. So, PLEASE voice your opinion below after listening to the archives!

Join us next week when we are joined by the panel from KiKi’s upcoming event… “Its Ok: Men Tell All!“

~~Zenikki~~

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Drink of the Week | 4-17-13

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Boston Green Tea

OMGee…this has been quite a week and its only Wednesday!! This week our producer created a drink in honor of the City of Boston and after all the madness this week, I think we all need as STIFF DRINK!!!

Gather your ingredients, SET A REMINDER & TUNE IN 2nite for “In the News…”!

The show goes LIVE at 7p PT (9p CT/10p ET)

Boston Green Tea

1 oz White Tequila

1 oz White Rum

1 oz Vodka

1 oz Gin

1 oz Irish Whiskey

3 oz Sweetened Green Tea

 

Instructions:

Combine all ingredients over ice in a tall glass and stir. You can add Ginger Ale if you like bubbles.

SECRETS! – The Recap | (originally aired 4-10-13)

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SECRETS!! –  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, April 10, 2013

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Last Wednesday the crew on Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi talked about how they would handle certain situations in What Would You Do! That show actually gave birth to this week’s topic of SECRETS! The whole crew was on board and this topic actually “turned up” the whole show, chat room and all. Coach KiKi kicked it off by laying down the fact that most SECRETS come from fear and dodging accountability and once she said that…we knew a few people would be taking turns on Ms. KiKi’s couch this week. STAY TUNED! Throughout the show we defined what a secret is, the common types, who they hurt and how to deal in the aftermath.

A Secret is defined as: Known by only a few; intentionally withheld from knowledge; conveying a desire to conceal.

Ms. KiKi  started the conversation with the common mantra “What goes on in this house STAYS in this house”. I am sure most of us have heard this come up in our own homes growing up, and on the surface it is understandable that everybody doesn’t need to know our business, but taken to the extreme this could have the potential to hide away many skeletons and possibly perpetuate abuse.  Our host led the charge by revealing her first family secret as an example how common mantras or traditions can be hurtful and extend tensions for generations. This admission led to Ms. KiKi lying on her own couch! Yes JUICY in the first 20 minutes!! Next, Sporty revisited the secret that was revealed by her mother last week in the chat room and broke it all the way down for us. Please LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES because what Sporty did to her sister has to be heard in live.

The crew continued with the family secrets and how southerners used labels to keep things on the down low. The terms “Special and Touched” were defined by the South’s dictionary. Shaun explained his own “shotgun wedding” and his attitude about that mentality.  Sporty’s first poem suggested that she may be adopted but, for all regulars in the CHAT ROOM, we all know she is definitely Mama Marlene’s child! You have to LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES because Sporty spoke to soon about Mama Marlene’s absence.

Our producer out did herself with this week’s “Drink of the Week”, the “G14 Classified“. After a few sips, it will definitely have you spilling it all. If you were in the chat room this week you would have witnessed the effects first hand, because our producer, Chandra decided to be her own test dummy and apparently enjoyed the experience just a little too much!

Next Ms. KiKi revealed that her case of CRS (can’t remember sh*t), is what makes her the perfect secret keeper. It is at this point in the show that Sporty’s secret about her and Shaun, led KiKi to reference Mama Marlene and her “Boo“. If you don’t know who Mama Marlene’s boo is, you must LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES!! Other secrets discussed were addiction, lying by omission and spouses hiding things from one another.  Shaun’s explanation of why we keep secrets or lie and the frequencies that humans vibrate on is a must listen. I personally love KiKi’s explanation as to why we should always deal in truth and why you can’t possibly say you’re lying to protect me.

Celebrity secrets were next on the agenda and touched on the commonly known ones like Arnold and the maid to Halle’s new baby. Seriously is that a secret?  At that very moment FB Shaka, Mr. Daddy to Sporty, slid into the building.  This could be the biggest secret of the night because Shaka and Mama Marlene show up at the same damn time! Please, Please, Please LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES! for the “special caller” who brought us clarification.  Frankly, this caller alone may overshadow Facebook Shaka’s TOP 5, which was hilarious by the way.

Finally the “Ask PDA” letter was just as crazy and fell right in line.  This week’s writer, in my opinion, is obviously confused about what priorities are, but Ms. KiKi  and the crew tried to help in the form of advice.  I’m sure Bi in the South is looking at the issue in a different light. By all means, PLEASE voice your opinion below after listening to the archives!

Join us next week as we discuss a favorite show topic of mine… “In the News!“

~~Zenikki~~

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WHAT WOULD YOU DO?! – The Recap | (originally aired 4-3-13)

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WHAT WOULD YOU DO!! –  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

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Last week on Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi the crew discussed “Interdependence: We All Play a Role!“ and explained how we all need each other to make this wonderful world go around! Which brings us to this week’s topic of WHAT WOULD YOU DO?! We may need each other but there are many many strange things that happen every day and need to know how we might react.  First up, I got to give a birthday shout out to our resident “Know-It-All”, Peepin Shaun!! Welcome to “Club 40 ” baby boy! (Personally, I don’t think Shaun is really feeling being 40, but just listen to the archives and see if you agree.)

This week’s show jump started with the crew sharing some personal business. In the first few minutes we learned that Shaun was not always a “know it all” and possibly a late bloomer according to most guys standards. Ms. KiKi  and Sporty also revealed some juicy tidbits in the first few minutes. Then in the next few seconds our Fallen Angel laid out a “What Would You Do?!” HEAVY HITTER that could possibly involve the police! Please LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES because Shaun was right behind her with a gut punch. I didn’t know they were so violent.

The chat room did not disappoint this week. There were the usual suspects, as well as some rookies and everyone got involved in the conversation.  Ms. KiKi‘s next scenario that involved “death bed confessions” set the chat room a fire with responses, some were rather evolved like Peepin’ Shaun’s while others were…well, not so much! Though I must say most responses were with team Sporty! The following scenario of waking up as the opposite sex had the responses flying PLEASE LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to find out what Sporty would do and how KiKi would use the information.

Nothing was off limits from the scenario’s that were given; they included the pulpit, pregnant children, time travel and much much more. Once again this week we had our special chat room guest – Sporty’s mom and she did not disappoint!  Her Mom gave up the goods and kept us all on the edge of our seats. I am sure Sporty wished she would have gone to sleep a little early this week. Join us next week to see what Sporty’s Mom has for us.

To hear some of Sporty’s reactions to her mom…you guessed it!! LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES!

As always our producer’s “Drink of the Week” followed the theme and “Dilemma” will definitely have you in quite a conundrum! One of the ingredients alone had me stumped and just a little afraid. Ms. KiKi shared her story about her experience with that ingredient, so PLEASE try it out and tell us what dilemma you found yourself in!

The conversation always seems to find its way to some sexual topic and our host Ms. KiKi did just that with a split scenario for Peepin’ Shaun and Sporty Spunky Angel! KiKi’s own answer was a little rough for the young fellas and I quote, “This is NOT where you start, this is where you end up!”.  The answers to the circumcision scenario were hilarious and a little disturbing.  This led to a cheating scenario which sprouted wings and took on a life of its own. Even one of our callers chimed in with a scenario for Ms. KiKi and some advice for Shaun! You must LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES, and comment with your opinion.

Lastly, the “Ask PDA” letter was right in line with last few we’ve had.  Yes Ms. KiKi was fit to be tied with the writer and the advice from the crew and the chat room was kinda split.  It all comes down to doing what is right for your situation and those involved. By all means, PLEASE voice your opinion below after listening to the archives!

Join us next week as we discuss a show topic that came about during this week’s show… “Secrets“

~~Zenikki~~

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Drink of the Week | 4-3-13

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DILEMMA

This week on Playing Devil’s Advocate™ we pose the question “What Would You Do?” and our Producer’s “Drink of the Week” will definitely have you in quite a conundrum!

Gather your ingredients, set your reminder and TUNE IN for “What Would You Do?!” at 7p PT (9p CT/10p ET)!!

Dilemma

2 oz Moonshine
6 oz Sweet Iced Tea
½ oz Peach Schnapps
Juice of half a lemon
Lemon Slice

Instructions:
Pour all of the ingredients over ice, stir and garnish with the lemon.

INTERDEPENDENCE: We All Play a Role! – The Recap | (originally aired 3-27-13)

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INTERDEPENDENCE: WE ALL PLAY A ROLE – The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

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The crew dissected the term Sexy last week on Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi , this week they kept it 100 by exploring INTERDEPENDENCE: WE ALL PLAY A ROLE! Even though the crew was light at the beginning of the show it kicked off with all the fire you expect each week.  Our host Ms. KiKi started off on 10 about the subject, because she is simply tired of hearing women spew the misconception of “I’m an independent women I don’t need a man”.  STOP IT, I say, STOP IT!

So before we go any further, let’s start by explaining the term INTERDEPENDENCE!

Interdependence is a relationship in which each member is mutually dependent on the others.

The key word in the definition is mutually. Each party in the relationship is dependent on the other to accomplish or reach a certain goal. Similar to the pendulum KiKi often refers to, on one end you have dependency, such as children depending on their parents while on the other end you have your extremist-“I don’t need anyone’s help” and this show is about that balance.  KiKi gave a perfect example of that balance and it’s simple…PDA’s crew depends on each other every week to pull off a great show.

Surprisingly “Mr. Know it all”, Peeping Shaun and KiKi agree a great deal on this subject. LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES  to witness for yourself how they both believe that “Behind every great man is a great woman”. Well KiKi’s saying had a little twist and if you know the “Consummate Provocateur” you can pretty much guess her version. Of course this belief of a woman standing behind her man, jump started the conversations in the chat room. If that wasn’t enough KiKi’s next term “Submissive” exploded the chat room.

The opinions came from every angle.  Shaun dislikes the saying “There are no good men left”, KiKi came back with “Women today don’t know how to act like ladies”.  These comments led the conversation to the role reversal happening today with metrosexual men and their super independent female counterparts.  The chat room offered some interesting comments about men wearing skirts…but to hear how it all came together; you know what you have to do…LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES!

The producer, Chandra stood tall on her soap box this week in the chat room and she has some serious thoughts on this subject, especially that bad word “submissive”. I was slightly confused about how the “Drink of the Week” tied into this week subject. However, after mixing up the “Soul Stealer” and knocking it back you really won’t care. Maybe Chandra should have had a few before the show then she wouldn’t have been so riled up. I agree with Shaun, Chandra didn’t create this week’s drink, her alter-ego, ENDGAME did!. Try it and let us know what you stole after a few.

After a few sips of RED, you know it’s not a flavor just a color, Kool-Aid Ms. KiKi had a few harsh words for women, “We are NOT equal to men…we are different!” It’s no big shocker that Shaun agreed we are different and there is a purpose for the difference and if he expected his woman to do x, y and z he would be labeled a chauvinist. And without missing a beat, KiKi countered with, I really want to agree with you, but I just need to know what I am agreeing to”.  LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES, to find out what she agreed to.

Sporty joined the conversation with a list of things women can do that men absolutely cannot do. I was surprised at the length of the list. Once you LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES I’m sure you will be too!  Rocky chimed in with his ONE job women can do that men can’t, but it turned out to be already on the list.  To try and redeem himself he took a trip back in time before Ms. KiKi put on her coach hat and shared some tips on how a woman can harness her powers for good to get what she needs from her man, please LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to learn how.  Then just like clockwork, Facebook Shaka came through with a rant that you definitely can’t be eating or drinking while listening.

This week’s “Ask PDA” letter once again had our host fired up! I am so sure the author did not expect the feedback that was offered, but sometimes the unexpected is the best teacher. So, PLEASE voice your opinion below after listening to the archives!

Join us next week as we revisit a show topic that was a fan favorite… “WHAT WOULD YOU DO!“

~~Zenikki~~

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 Sporty Spunky Angel   Peepin’ Shaun

DEFINING SEXY! – The Recap | (originally aired 3-20-13)

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DEFINING SEXY!! –  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

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Last week on Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi the crew talked about Political Correctness, this week they tossed that out the window and got down to the nitty gritty DEFINING SEXY! First things first, we had to give a PSA about our fallen angel, Sporty Spunky Angel, who was B.U.I.N. (BROADCASTING UNDER THE INFLUENCE NAKED), this week! So when you listen to the archives don’t say I didn’t warn you.

Now back to our regularly scheduled show, DEFINING SEXY!

Sexy an adjective is defined as being concerned predominantly or excessively with sex; sexually interesting or exciting; radiating sexuality; excitingly appealing; glamorous.

This week’s show kicked off with the crew each giving their personal definitions of Sexy, even I got to give my two cents. Though we all had different out looks on what SEXY means to us we were all close in range with describing this complicated noun, verb that radiates from one’s inner and outer aura. One example given by our host Ms. KiKi was how she is attracted to Manergy™! What’s that you say, well listen to the archives to find out.

The chat room was full of opinions and they were all definitely involved in this week’s conversation.   The question of the difference between SEXY and sexuality was brought up and Ms. KiKi of course broke it down. Just so you know there is a difference. Though Peepin’ Shaun  tried to challenge our host with the fact that some people are not naturally sexual, KiKi burst that bubble and yes you have to LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to find out how.

Next, the crew discussed what acts are sexy to them and this brings me back to Peepin’ Shaun the voyeur who says a look or subtle touch is SEXY to him, but he lost me with this freaky thing about humping body parts! Now Sporty on the other hand I can relate to. She finds the small things SEXY, watching her man undress, after a shower with a towel on, etc.  Shaun really turned up the conversation when he revealed SALIVA, yes SALIVA is SEXY to him.

To hear how it all comes together; you know what you have to do…LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES!

Of course our producer’s “Drink of the Week” followed the theme and “SPRINGTIME SAKE” was SEXY through and through; from the name to the ingredients. This drink had our “Voice of Unreason” on a rampage, READ ON…..

Just when you think it’s safe…we were joined by Facebook Shaka fresh off his own personal SPRINGTIME SAKE, with a touch of Crown Royal I might add.  So you know the TOP 5 was INSANE! As usual, no one was safe from this list, not even Peepin’ Shaun or Sporty Spunky Angel! I don’t know if he had one to many SPRINGTIME SAKES or if he meant it, but Shaka actually agreed with Shaun on the “saliva vs. spit” issue.  Maybe I missed something, so when you LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES, comment and let me know.

Ms. KiKi brought up the science of SEXY with the symmetry test of “Golden Ratio” and she was not happy with her 8.1 out 10 score. She is such a perfectionist !  Take the test and post your score if you like! Breaking down the Science of SEXY led the crew with a visit from Rocky Miller to list the people who are SEXY to them. There were many different types of people listed so, to hear the list and compare it to yours, yep that’s right LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES!

For the GRAND FINALE the “Ask PDA” letter irritated our host so much that you could almost picture the steam coming from her ears! Ms. KiKi prefaced her tirade with the obligatory “This is why I do what I do…” and then she went BALLS TO THE WALL!! So, PLEASE voice your opinion below after listening to the archives!

Join us next week and we discuss a show topic that came about during this week’s show… “Interdependence: We all play a role!“

~~Zenikki~~

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Drink of the Week | 3-20-13

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Springtime Sake

From the looks of the Producer’s “Drink of the Week“, Spring Time is near!! This week’s drink is refreshingly sexy and reflects this week’s topic “Defining Sexy” on Playing Devil’s Advocate™!

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Defining Sexy

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Springtime Sake

3 oz Good-Quality Sake, such as a Junmai Ginjo
1 1/2 oz Fresh Grapefruit Juice
1 oz Soda Water
Grapefruit or Lemon Peel for Garnish

Add all liquid ingredients to an ice-filled tall glass and give a quick stir.

Garnish with peel.

POLITICALLY CORRECT – The Recap | (originally aired 3-13-13)

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POLITICALLY CORRECT: When Did We Get So Sensitive?!! –  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

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Our topic on Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi this week had our host, Ms. KiKi, gearing for the last couple of days.  Her posts on Twitter and Facebook leading up to yesterday’s show, definitely fired up many opinions!  But before we get into the details of it all, I wanna give a big GET WELL SOON to our fallen angel, Sporty Spunky Angel, hurry and come back…You were missed!

Now lets get into this weeks topic, Politically Correct – When Did We Get So Sensitive.

Political Correctness is defined as - The alteration of one’s voice or opinion to keep from offending an individual person or group.

 

Have we let this Political Correct business get out of hand?  What happened to our First Amendment Rights? As our host Ms. KiKi so eloquently put it, “You do have the freedom to speak it, but you better believe it’s going to cost you something!”   By conforming to this ever growing ban on free speech are we hindering ourselves and our future?

Our host KiKi kicked it off with how fed up she is with the whole new Pope installation grand stand and if you follow her on twitter, you already know how fed up she really is…if not, you will have listen to the archives to find out! If you have said, or believe that the “truth hurts” you may want to re-evaluate yours thoughts on that after hearing why Ms. KiKi believes it doesn’t! Her response prompted Mr. Know-It-All, Peepin’ Shaun to challenge people to examine why they choose to be politically correct in the first place.

Ms. KiKi broke down her advantages and dangers of being Politically Correct some of which include:

1. Allows people to be diplomatic;
2. Allow people to be sensitive to others feelings, and
3. Undercover censorship

To hear the full breakdown; you know what you have to do…LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES!

“The Regular Guy“ Rocky Miller stopped by to explain how and why he misused the term, “retarded” for way too many years. (To be honest, I personally I think he still uses it “his” way.) Then the conversation turned up when the crew started analyzing terms and phrases that have changed as a result of the pressure to be Politically Correct.  One example, “Juvenile Delinquent” this term is no more; these children are now known as “At Risk Youth“. In my humble opinion, an “At Risk Youth” could be my 16 year old son behind the wheel of a car…or maybe that’s just me. Anyway…if you want to hear the crew let loose, especially on all the issues going on in men’s pants (its way too crowded down there) LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES!

Our producer’s “Drink of the Week” reflected her attitude towards all the Left Wing Liberals pushing this Politically Correct agenda: The LEFTIE with its mostly alcohol recipe is sure turn anyone’s opinion.

Because a show like this wouldn’t be the same if Facebook Shaka didn’t stop by and drop is opinion all over the place. His Top 5 was on point and no one was spared, so listen to the archives to hear it for yourselves!

Finally, our “Ask PDA” letter was juicy and begged the question of whether being PC is the way to go!!  PLEASE voice your opinion below after listening to the archives!

~~Zenikki~~

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HYPOCRISY: You Can’t Have It Both Ways! | The Recap (originally aired 3-6-13)

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HYPOCRISY: You Can’t Have It Both Ways!! –  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, March 6, 2013

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This week’s Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi was entertaining to say the least. So things started off with a much deserved kudos to our stylish host, Ms. KiKi, on her dress of choice for the Voyage Fashion Gala this past weekend. (check it out HERE and tell us what YOU think!)

If you talk the talk but don’t walk the walk, in a nutshell, you are a hypocrite and  Hypocrisy – You Can’t Have It Both Ways was this week’s topic…and it was on fire!  The show worked from two angles:

1. Hypocrisy which is defined as: claiming to have moral standards or beliefs to which one’s own behavior does not conform; and
2. Double Standard which is defined as: a rule or principle is unfairly applied in different ways to different groups. 

KiKi started with all the people who condemn her for penning the book, The Other Woman’s Code of Conduct, but plan their lives around watching Scandal every week for Olivia and Fitz’s affair, and moved on to Sporty Spunky Angel’s church folk…especially the pulpit! (we can cover an entire show on just them alone! but I digress…)  The conversation continued with Peepin’ Shaun’s know-it-all explanation of the different types of hypocrisy (but you will have to listen to the archives to hear what they are!)

Since Ms. KiKi was in coach mode again, she broke down the three main reasons people are hypocrites:

1. Fear of what other people may say or think;
2. Uncertain of what they actually believe; and
3. Their actual beliefs are unrealistic and/or unattainable.

Then she took us to school about hypocrites and the double standard of women vs. men and their number of sexual partners…but you will have to listen to the archives to hear the solution for that issue!

Meanwhile in the chat room,  Sporty’s mom (that’s right…HER MOTHER!) was holding it down! She put all of Sporty’s business out in the street, including her government name! Not only that, she was flirting with someone in chat and it really chapped Sporty’s hide! If you want to know who it was and what happened…you guessed it, LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES (I will give you a hint…it wasn’t Peepin’ Shaun! LOL)

“The Regular Guy” Rocky Miller dropped in long enough to share a philosophical nugget on hypocritical parents, like only he can and then entered our Resident Voice of Unreason…Facebook Shaka! He delivered a Top 5 that had my sides hurting. He brought the hammer down on the men, women, uppity black people and even the Elders of the church!

Our producer’s “Drink of the Week” is sure to be a favorite among the cougars out there. Chandra created the Cotton Candy Shooter to lure the bing all the young ones to the “sandlot”.

This brings us to our special guest, Meg Brown, Senior Casting Director for TLC’s  Extreme Cougar Wives.  Meg is looking for couples, single cougars, the new cougar or the “sabertooth”. If you are interested in being on the show, email her! Our host Ms. KiKi can totally understand this cougar concept because we all know, THAT’S HOW SHE ROLLS! She is OUR resident cougar and makes no apologies about it!  Sporty Angel, Peepin’ Shaun and Facebook Shaka ALL had opinions on the topic of cougars but you will have to listen to the archives to hear them for yourselves!!

Finally, Meg decided to stick around for our “Ask PDA” letter and it was a doozey! Twin sisters… live in the same complex, one a happy widowed retiree, the other a free loving 7 time married adulteress, need I say more?!?! Listen to the archives and leave your two cents.

~~Ki²~~

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Drink of the Week | 3-6-13

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Cotton Candy Shooter

OK, this week we are discussing hypocrisy and double standards on “HYPOCRISY: You Can’t Have It Both Ways” & helping to cast for TLC’s “Extreme Cougar Wives” soooo our Producer, Chandra made something that EVERY cougar could use to lure her young prey into her clutches!!

SET A REMINDER NOW, gather your ingredients TUNE IN for the madness known as Playing Devil’s Advocate™ 

Cotton Candy Shooter 

1 1/2 Vodka
Cotton Candy

Instructions:

Fill a shooter glass with the Cotton Candy.

Pour the Vodka over the Cotton Candy toss back and enjoy.

CALLING ALL COUGARS!! | March 6, 2013

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TLC is ON THE PROWL for more EXTREME COUGAR WIVES!  Stiletto Television, the award winning production company that brought you TLC’s smash hit special Extreme Cougar Wives, is now searching nationwide for more fabulous cougars to star in this captivating docu-series!!

• Are you a woman over 50 with an outgoing personality and amazing energy who is happily in love (or looking for love) with a much younger man?
• Do you find that men your age just can’t keep up with your lifestyle, level of maturity or libido?
• If you like to date men 20, 30, 40 or even 50 years younger than you and are proud of it, we want to know your  story!

If you or someone you know is an extreme cougar, lives in the United States:

LISTEN to  Playing Devil’s Advocate™ on Wednesday, March 6, 2013  for “HYPOCRISY: You Can’t Have it Both Ways!” at 7p PT (9p CT/10p ET) because the show’s Senior Director of Talent Development and Casting will be on air giving the casting details!!!

DO NOT MISS IT!!

Drink of the Week | 2-27-27

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Twisted Drop

Our Producer has found her stride again and is off to the races with this week’s “Drink of the Week“!  Prepare yourself this week’s DOW, SET A REMINDER and TUNE IN for: “Self Destruction: Violence” at 7p PT (9p CT/10p ET)

Twisted Drop

1 1/2 oz Tequila
1/2 oz Agave Nectar
1/2 oz Lime juice

Instructions:

Place all ingredients into a shaker filled with ice. Shake , then strain into shot glass and garnish with a lime wedge. You can also sugar the rim of the shot glass for extra flavor.

Take a bite of the lime then toss back the shot.

“THE ENEMY WITHIN–GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY” | The Recap (originally aired 2-20-13)

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“THE ENEMY WITHIN–GET OUT OF YOUR OWN WAY“ -  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, February 20th, 2013

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I’m Starting With The Man In
The Mirror
I’m Asking Him To Change
His Ways
And No Message Could Have
Been Any Clearer
If You Wanna Make The World
A Better Place
Take A Look At Yourself, And
Then Make A Change

- Michael Jackson “Man in the Mirror”

Last week on PLAYING DEVIL’S ADVOCATE™ -Hosted by Ms. KiKi we discussed the definition of love.  What came out of that discussion  was  the understanding that you must first learn to love yourself.  What we didn’t talk about was that in order to truly love yourself, you must first get out of your own way.  You may have heard the saying “You are your own worst enemy” and what that means is that there is a part of you that will try it’s best to prevent you from making changes and improvements in your life.  That part of you is your subconscious.  Your subconscious believes that what it knows to be true is, for better or worse, is what is best for you.  There is a comfort that comes along with the learned behavior it has accumulated over the course of your life.  When you start thinking of or doing something it is not familiar with, it will recognize this as pain.  The fear of this pain, no matter how unrealistic it may be, is what causes all the things we end up doing to sabotage ourselves.  Gone unchecked, we will continue to stay in a state of stagnation, unable to move forward.  None of us will have the same reasons for why we behave the way we do, as life is a singular experience.  What we all can do is take a deep look in the mirror and see far enough into ourselves to be able to meet “THE ENEMY WITHIN”.

Ms. KiKi was back in class with another lesson to help educate us all about the inner workings of life.  There are many levels of counter productive activity that will keep us in denial.  One of the major ways we stand in our own way is through procrastination.  There are 3 reasons why we procrastinate 1. Lack of Focus 2. Lack of a goal or plan 3. Having a negative feeling towards something.  What we should do is confront these things in order to move past them, but for many it’s easiest to just avoid them.  The problem is that the more you avoid, the more that will pile up until we become overwhelmed. Fear and doubt are other bricks on the road of self sabotage.  It is the killer of all dreams.  Fear and faith can not coexist. If you truly believe you are capable of doing something you can’t be fearful of it.  The faith Ms. Kiki is talking about is the faith you must have in yourself. She went on to breakdown other ways we excuse ourselves from facing our negative self images.  Things such as Overcompensation, Laziness, Self Fulfilling Prophecy, Real vs. Ideal and  Negativity.  To hear the rest of the conversation you’ll have to listen to the ARCHIVES.

Sporty Spunky Angel felt it was a good time to tilt her halo and take a shot at me, Peepin Shaun.  Since I am the proclaimed “know-it-all” she asked Ms. KiKi if this was a form of self sabotage.  I mean honestly the nerve of her throwing “ME” under the bus!  I will agree that tuning out the thoughts and opinions of others limits to our own overall perspective of the world.  Now I’m always willing to hear the things that are being said to me and I can take whatever value there may be in it.  That doesn’t mean that I personally will view those things as meaningful information.  After all, what else can be expected of me?  Facebook Shaka dropped in with his brand of humor and gave us a list of “Ways You Know You Are a Self Sabotager“.  All I can say is…he continues to makes us laugh and shake our heads at the things that come out of his mouth. This week’s “Drink of the Week” is sure to help you gain enough courage to fight off your demons.  Our producer, Chandra looked to the heavens for inspiration and  created this potion called “Vanilla Skies”. 

The Ask PDA letter is a clear definition of someone standing in their own way.   Our writer has two issues they need to deal with.  The first is a house guest that has long since worn out their welcome.  Should being a family member be an excuse for not correcting a bad situation? The second is an employee that needs to be fired.  This is not something anyone should take pleasure in, but if that person is not right for the job and could cause you financial loss then you should be allowed to put aside your sympathies and do what needs to be done.  You are the one who has more to lose here.  Tell us what you think after hearing the letter in the ARCHIVES.

Thanks to Rocky Miller for calling in and joining the panel.  His family took a trip to the ATL and hung out with our illustrious host and producer. Hear about their weekend meet and greet.  A big shout to all our repeat offenders and new chat room participants for making this a great show. Keep sending those Tweets, Facebook Messages and emails.  We do it for you, but we couldn’t do it without you.

Next week we’re going deeper down the rabbit hole of our psyches; to the darkest part of our nature.  This is the end product of not being able to love ourselves and falling too far into self sabotage. “SELF DESTRUCTION–VIOLENCE” is the name of the show and we’re going to talk about all its many forms.  Be sure to tune in!

~Peepin’ Shaun~ 

“Peepin Shaun”

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Drink of the Week | 2-20-13

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Our Producer’s “Drink of the Week” will most certainly exorcise “The Enemy Within“!! Set your reminder NOW, gather your cocktail ingredients & TUNE IN for a great show! Don’t sabotage yourself by missing it!!

This Week’s Drink:

Vanilla Skies
1 1/2oz Honey Rum
1 1/2oz Vanilla Cognac
1/2oz Freshly squeezed lemon juice
Honey

Instructions:
Drizzle a little honey around the inside of a chilled Martini glass in a fun pattern! Combine all ingredients in a ice filled cocktail shaker. Shake and strain into the chilled Martini glass. Garnish with a twist of fresh lemon.

“LOVE IS…” | The Recap (originally aired 2-13-13)

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“LOVE IS…“ -  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, February 13th, 2013

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LOVE: 

NOUN

1. a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.
2. a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.
3. sexual passion or desire.

VERB

1. to have love or affection for: All her pupils love her.
2. to have a profoundly tender, passionate affection for (another person).
3. to have a strong liking for; take great pleasure in: to love music.

There really is no better subject to discuss on February the 14th than that of love.  Love is what binds us, what motivates us and what can also destroy us.  It’s been written about, endless movies are made about it and it’s been theorized about to no end.  It’s been broken down and dissected to its very essence and still people struggle to find it, understand and hold onto it.  It’s something that each and every person on this planet has enjoyed, endured and equally it has caused them pain. With all there is to know about it people still ask the age-old question…  What is love?  Well on this edition of PLAYING DEVIL’S ADVOCATE™ -Hosted by Ms. KiKi we are going to do our best to explain to people all the things one must consider when contemplating this very crucial element of ones own existence. That’s right so take notes because we’re going to tell you exactly what “LOVE IS…”

Ms. KiKi put on her coaching cap tonight and led this very detailed discussion.  She began by asking both Sporty Spunky Angel and I, Peepin Shaun to describe how we each define love.  She then started to break down what love means from a very natural and psychological perspective.  From the dictionary’s definition of the word it’s easy to see why people have such a narrow understanding of what it is.  It’s not a feeling or an emotion.  In fact it is a combination of types, stages, styles and languages.  All mixed with a heavy concoction of chemicals that your brain releases into your system.  Ever heard of someone being addicted to love?  What other chemicals do people become addicted to?  That’s right we’re all a bunch of love junkies.  In our own unique way, we’re not all that much different from a crack head looking for the next fix.  Knowing the process that we are experiencing should lead people to understand that is all starts from within.  Loving yourself first, means knowing and accepting yourself and being free to express who you are to others in a positive and nurturing manner.  Imagine how much healthier your intimate relationships would be if you were able to induce the knowledge of how you love and why you love.  We can’t help who we love, but the things discussed on the show will give you a broader understanding of why love can be so damn confusing.

First of all there are at least 15 Different Types of Love:

Infatuation, Romantic Love, Eros, Compassionate Love, Unconditional Love, Conditional Love, Puppy Love, Maternal Love, Paternal Love, Soul-mate Love, Spiritual/Divine Love, Love of your country or patriotism, Self-Love, Brotherly Love and Tough Love.

There are 3 Stages of Love:

Stage 1: Lust

This is the first stage of love and is driven by the sex hormones testosterone and estrogen – in both men and women.

Stage 2: Attraction

This stage is the amazing time when you are truly love-struck and can think of little else. Scientists think that three main neurotransmitters are involved in this stage; Adrenaline, Dopamine and Serotonin.

Stage 3: Attachment

Attachment is the bond that keeps couples together for the natural urge to procreate. Scientists think there might be two major hormones involved in this feeling of attachment; Oxytocin and Vasopressin.

There are 6 Styles of Loving:

Based on the same premise of the color wheel in which there are primary and secondary colors (which are a mixture of 2 or more primary colors). The thinking is the same as it relates to the styles of love.

Three primary styles:
1. Eros – Loving an ideal person
2. Ludos – Love as a game
3. Storge – Love as friendship

Three secondary styles:
1. Mania (Eros + Ludos) – Obsessive love
2. Pragma (Ludos + Storge) – Realistic and practical love
3. Agape (Eros + Storge) – Selfless love

KiKi was in her element and on a roll! She even covered the Triangular Theory of Love by Psychologist, Robert Sternberg!

Several listeners and chat room participants asked many questions about being addicted to love, the possibility of being in love with more than one person and stalking!  KiKi, forever the resource, quickly offered answers and psychological facts to back up her responses….and after Rocky Miller & Facebook Shaka chimed in, we discussed the

Five Love Languages:

Words of Affirmation
Quality Time

Gifts

Acts of Service

Physical Touch

 

If you are interested in finding out which of the 5 Love Languages is yours, click the link and take the test.  To find out how we each scored and what our Love Language is you’re going to have to listen to the ARCHIVES.  It’s a lot to take in and digest, but as you can see and will hear… Love by no means is a simple thing.

As a toast to the theme of this show, our producer Chandra created something that would appeal to those with a blood sucking mentality.  A Vampire’s wet dream indeed. This week’s “Drink of the Week” is called “Shot to the Heart”. 

The Ask PDA letter is an example of how the early stages of love can go awry.  When two people are not at the same stage or even in the same type of love, signals can get mixed.  Our writer says that their love interest seems to be showing them all the signs of wanting to move forward.  They spend a significant amount of time together and they are showered with attention and affection, but has also clearly stated that it’s not going to become any more significant as far as labeling or defining their relationship.  How should one feel when you seemingly have all you need except the commitment of monogamy.  Are they being unrealistic or are they simply being played?  Find out what we said, then tell us what you think!

Thanks to our callers, guest panelists and our chat room participants for making this a great show. Keep sending those Tweets, Facebook Messages and emails.  We do it for you, but we couldn’t do it without you.

Next week we are taking another look inward.  In order to truly love yourself you have to figure out what things are hidden down deep that prevent you from moving forward in your life. It is true that you will always be your own worst enemy.  So we’re gonna peel back some flesh to discover “THE ENEMY WITHIN: Self Sabotage”. 

~Peepin’ Shaun~ 

“Peepin Shaun”

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Is #LOVE addictive?
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Drink of the Week | 2-13-13

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Shot to the Heart

If you don’t know what love is our producer’s “Drink of the Week” will have you thinking long and hard about it!

Set a reminder here, gulp down this week’s drink & tune in this week for

“Love Is…“!!

Shot to the Heart

1 oz Vodka
½ oz Cherry liqueur
½ oz Cranberry juice

Instructions:
Shake with ice and strain into a chilled shot glass.

“Open Conversation on RACISM–Is This a Post Racial Society?” | The Recap (originally aired 1-30-13)

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“Open Conversation on RACISM–Is This a Post Racial Society?“ -  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, January 30th, 2013

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rac·ism

n.

1. The belief that race accounts for differences in human character or ability and that a particular race is superior to others.

2. Discrimination or prejudice based on race.

This week on PLAYING DEVIL’S ADVOCATE™ -Hosted by Ms. KiKi we decided to tackle a subject matter that is one most people are uncomfortable discussing.  It’s a subject matter that is a central foundation of these United States and every once in a while we as American citizens must take a good look at ourselves in the mirror.  Racism is this topic I speak of and of late it seems we have plenty of reason to introduce the conversation and we do enjoy having the uncomfortable conversation.  I’d like to believe that it is possible for all people to get along without being labeled or treated differently based on skin color or ethnicity.  However an argument can be made to support the fact that it seems as though society is set up to intentionally make living more difficult for certain people.  Those certain people being minorities of course.

Ms. KiKi feels that racism in today’s society is no longer something that can be blamed on the ignorant opinions of the past. Part of the reason why it continues to exist is due to the ignorant attitudes people continue to display today.  We got a good glimpse of that during the recent Presidential elections.  There is a portion of this country that resents the fact that there is a man of color in the White House.  Through social media everyone has a voice and can in fact be heard.  When those voices supported the rhetoric of hatred it became clear that racism is not reserved for the 50 and older white demographic.

The media continues to limit our imaginations when it comes to there being any diversity with the roles that are left for people of color.  Most of them are stereotypical and show the worst that any of us as people have to offer the greater good.  Upon the release of the movie “Django Unchained” a growing controversy leaped forth over the use of the word Nigger.  Some feel it was over used and over sensationalized.  Some felt that it was appropriate for the period of time in which the move takes place.  Why pretend as though it wasn’t common.  Some don’t want to be reminded of the uglier side of America and some wish to pretend it never existed. Should it make black people upset to sit in a theater with a mix of other people and hear the word over and over again?  Should it make you uncomfortable? Is it fair to say that black people really need to move past owning the right to be offended by this?  I’m not sure if anyone who hasn’t suffered a particular type of discrimination should be allowed to tell someone else to get over it. There was more discourse about the merchandising of the action figures from the movie so listen to the archives so you don’t miss it!!

Affirmative Action was discussed and I, Peepin Shaun  was asked if I felt as though being a product of the benefits of this program has made my life any easier. The scholarships afforded me as a student definitely exposed me to a side of life that has been reserved for the wealthy and connected. Still as an adult it has slightly made me wonder if those experiences haven’t somewhat given me unrealistic expectations of what it can offer.  By looking at me no one is going to see my level of education or experience.  They will see me as a man of color and form an opinion based on however they may profile me.  I then have to somehow prove to them otherwise.  Perpetually being underestimated can prove challenging.  If anything it has made me more aware of disadvantages I may be face with in the real world.  Whether it be from an employer or a police officer , sometimes one can’t help but feel like some things are just unfair.  

We also covered such topics problems with  immigration, political leaders, unfair business practices and the privatized of prisons. Joining us as he has for the last few weeks, Facebook Shaka gave us another Top 5 list.  This week it was the“Top 5 things you should never say to your black friend” .  The humor he adds to the show is a welcomed part of what we do.  You’re going to have listen to the ARCHIVES to get the full conversation. We all seem to agree that racism still exists, but it exists in a much more subtle way.

Our producer Chandra, made amends for the light weight drink she made for KiKi’s birthday last week.  This week’s “Drink of the Week” is called “Rising Sun” and it’s a real treat for you Sake lovers out there.

The writer of this week’s Ask PDA letter finds themselves in love with someone who on the surface appears to be a very kind and caring person.  When around people of another ethnicities they come off as evolved and tolerant, but when among their own kind they exhibit the opinions of someone who may be racist.  They have asked them to be more sensitive to the nature of the things they say (as the writer has family members who are ethnically identified as the object of their lover’s racism), but this person sees no need to change their behavior.  Should they continue to be subjected by this way of thinking and write it off as poor humor, or should they face the fact that they just might have fallen in love with a closet racist?

Thanks to our callers, guest panelists and our chat room participants for making this a great show. Keep sending those Tweets, Facebook Messages and emails.  We do it for you, but we couldn’t do it without you.

Next week we are going to talk about the differences between being an adult and being a grown up.  There are things you can do once you reach a certain age, but there are also things you really shouldn’t be doing once you reach a certain age.     Tune in for “ADULTS vs. GROWN UPS: YOU’RE TOO OLD FOR____”

~Peepin’ Shaun~ 

“Peepin Shaun”

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Drink of the Week | 1-30-13

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Drink of the Week | 1-30-13

Ok..so this week our producer wants to “redeem” herself from having to make last week’s “Drink of the Week” so get your ingredients together, set a reminder and TUNE IN for “Open Conversation…RACISM: Is this a post-racial society?” 

Rising Sun

 2 oz. Ginjo Sake

1 Tablespoon Mashed Papaya

1/2 oz. Pineapple juice 

Splash fresh lime Juice

Instructions:

Place the mashed papaya in the mixing glass and the rest of the ingredients on top. Shake and pour into an iced glass, garnish with pineapple slice.

“HAPPY BIRTHDAY KiKi — Who cares???” | The Recap (originally aired 1-23-13)

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“HAPPY BIRTHDAY KiKi– Who cares???“ -  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, January 23rd, 2013

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Roast n.

                    a. Harsh ridicule or criticism.

                    b. A facetious tribute, as at a banquet, in which the honoree is

                        alternately praised and insulted.

 

This week on PLAYING DEVIL’S ADVOCATE™ -Hosted by Ms. KiKi we’re celebrating the birthday of our illustrious host.  What better way to do so than to put her under the microscope and turn the spotlight on her for a little well deserved ridicule and retribution.  It takes a certain type of character and humility to allow your friends to say the most foul things imaginable about you.  It comes from a place of love, but there is a lot of truth expressed in the things that are said.  Traditionally, a proper roast involves a meaty animal that has a spit run through the length of its body and it is then slowly rotated and cooked above an open-pit of searing fire. This is the perfect way to describe what was to come for Ms. KiKi on this night.  She being the meaty animal of course.  An attempt was made a few years back to roast her and quite frankly it failed.  So there was a good deal of pressure for Sporty Spunky Angel to not let that happen again, because we would never hear the end of it.  With me, Peepin Shaun  at her side.. failure was not an option.  I was more than happy to step out of my usual mild-mannered self and make sure I took full advantage of this rare opportunity.  Welcome to “Happy Birthday Kiki — Who cares??”

Not many people can say they have a body part that could be larger than life.  So large in fact that it has become its own entity and even has its own voice.  That’s right… her ass has its own distinct personality and you won’t believe the outrageous things it says.  That voice was allowed access to the roast by the very very funny comedian Rodney Perry who graced our show by headlining the roast.  Just to make sure we had all angles covered  we were joined once again by Facebook Shaka, who had not 1 but 2 Top 5 Lists. He ran down the “Top 5 Reasons I’d Never Work for Ms. KiKi” and “Top 5 Reasons I want to Date Ms. KiKi”.  We also had a few callers get on the line to join in on the fun and one of them called from a very interesting place indeed.  This show is one of those shows that is a MUST LISTEN!  It is 2 hours filled with laughter, so take some headache medicine before you click the link.

We had so much fun and Ms. KiKi was such a great sport and that is why we all love her so. Or do we??? Even our producer Chandra made the best of this special occasion and prepared a very special drink.  I can’t say she sounded thrilled about making it though, considering Ms. KiKi’s relationship with alcohol. So this week’s “Drink of the Week” is called “KiKi’s Kick Ass Cocktail” and according to Chandra..it doesn’t really kick any ass at all.

Thanks to our callers, guest panelists and our chat room participants for making this a great show. Keep sending those Tweets, Facebook Messages and emails.  We do it for you, but we couldn’t do it without you.

Next week we are switching gears and taking the show in a much more serious direction.  There were some disturbing racial realizations that came to light during this past Presidential Election.  Are we truly living in a Post-Racial Society?  That’s the question we have asked, o we felt it’s time to have an “OPEN DISCUSSION — RACISM”

~Peepin’ Shaun~ 

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Drink of the Week | 1-23-13

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KiK’s Kick Ass Cocktail

Tonight we are celebrating our host’s birthday and it looks like she is going to need the producer’s “Drink of the Week“ because it’s going to be H-O-T in there!! The cast is giving her a good old fashioned ROAST for her birthday!!!

Set a reminder, get your drink ready for the laughs tonight & TUNE IN at:

7p PT (9p CT/10p ET)

The Birthday Girl’s Drink:  KiKi’s Kick Ass Cocktail

1 1/2 oz light Rum
1 oz Cranberry
1 oz Mango Juice
1 oz Orange Juice

Pour over ice in a tall cocktail glass, stir and serve. You can garnish with a fruit.

~~

Life: K.I.S.S. | The Recap (originally aired 1-16-13)

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Life: K.I.S.S. -  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

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Happy Thursday!

As I sit here and listen back to the archives from last night’s show I must say it was just as fun the first time around!

We started the show talking about to to manage healthy parent/child relationships.  After Sporty Spunky Angel’s contribution of the naked pastor in a bubble bath with his granddaughter conversation, I posed a question to the panel that set up a “spat” between Peepin’ Shaun and myself! If you want to know what happened you have to listen to the archives and let us know who’s side you are on!

Next up we decided to switch gears and take it to the workplace! Since we spend a lot of time in our workplace, how do we make life more simple at work and subsequently what you take home with you. Sporty gave us a solution she used that would keep her boss in-line and let’s just say there was an admission of a crime (FYI. statute of limitations has long since expired).  How do you deal with the different workplace personalities of “the brown-noser“, “the overachiever“, “slacker“, “the know-it-all” or the “drama queen/king“, etc.

…and THEN (drum roll) Facebook Shaka joined the conversation with his Top 5 people he would NEVER work for! Let’s just say, I am on the list and the reason why is ABSOLUTELY TRUE and HILARIOUS!!

We talked about breaking up…how to do it, dividing property and who gets the friends in the break up!  If you are even a semi-regular listener, you know no show would be complete without talking about infidelity, TOW & TOM; since I am an expert who LITERALLY wrote the book on the subject, I had to lay down the law!  If you want to know what came from that discussion, yup you guessed it! LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES!

As for the “Drink of the Week“, our producer Chandra did it yet again! To find out more about “The Kidney Shot“….listen to the archives!  This week’s ”Ask PDA” had a bonus and the writer was able to get REAL TIME advice and make a decision based on our panel’s two cents!  Check out the archives and leave your comments below!

Join us next week for MY BIRTHDAY show; unfortunately I can’t tell you what’s going   to happen (and if you listened to the show, you know why).  Until then; comment on this blog, set a reminder & email us any other show ideas you would like us to discuss on a future show!!

~~Ki²~~

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Drink of the Week | 1-16-13

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Drink of the Week

 

Tonight we’re talking about ways to simplify our lives on “Life: K.I.S.S”; however I think our Producer’s “Drink of the Week” will definitely have you contemplating life! Set a reminder now, gather your ingredients & at 7p PT (9p CT/10p ET)  TUNE IN!

This week’s drink:

Kidney Shot

1/2 oz Whiskey
1/2 oz Gin
1/2 oz Dark Rum
Coke a Cola

Combine all the liquors in glass with ice, top off with the Coke a Cola.

Stir and garnish with a Lime or Lemon.

“”HAS THE WORLD GONE MAD?!”" | The Recap (originally aired 1-9-13)

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“”HAS THE WORLD GONE MAD?!” -  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

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December 21st, 2012 has come and gone and the world is still here.  Maybe the Mayans got it wrong or maybe we just misinterpreted the meaning of it all. Perhaps the world has come to a proverbial end.  An end to the fashion of life that had been built over hundreds if years.  None of us can deny that the way we live life  now is drastically different from what it was 20 years ago.  It may seem as though we have expanded upon the horizons of human conditioning through the emergence of social technologies, but I myself have started to question how much we have lost in its wake.  I’m not alone in this thinking.  More and more we are privy to the signs that there is something increasingly wrong with the way people are behaving.  Seemingly, on a daily basis another story emerges that some horrible tragedy or crime has been committed and we are then inundated by every last graphic detail as it spreads throughout the networks we are now all connected to.  Now you can try to ignore it and you can try to wish the best for mankind, but it seems as though hope is running out.  Pandora’s Box is being closed and it may be quite some time before it reopens.  As individuals we can only do our best to stay sane during these troubled times, but this week on PLAYING DEVIL’S ADVOCATE™ -Hosted by Ms. KiKi we’re collectively asking,  “HAS THE WORLD GONE MAD?!”.

Ms. KiKi, Sporty Spunky Angel and Peepin Shaun Amin (that’s me), ran down a laundry list of rhymes and reasons as to why we think the world is spinning out of control.  See if any of these resonate with you.

Lack of Morals & Manners – Does anyone know how to behave properly?

Failing Education – How dumb do they want us to be?

Rise Of Instant Celebrities – They are not the talented role models they once were.

Food Crisis – Do you have any idea that you’re not eating real food anymore?

Lack of Community Leadership – We’re blindly and cluelessly walking in circles.

Survival of the Unfit- Darwin is spinning in his grave. There are too many medicated people on the planet.

Gun Violence – It’s nothing new, but it seems to be getting massively worse in scope.

Global Desensitization – News, Media and Modern Culture… We’re all victims here.

Technology - With all the good it can do, there is as much bad that it has caused.

This week we were treated to the unadulterated humor of Facebook Shaka-the “Voice of Unreason“ He had his own top five reasons as to why he thinks the world has gone mad.  If you missed his first appearance on our show.. Let me just say this… he’s a wild boy and will say things that will not only bring tears to your eyes, but make you question what it is you just heard him say.  You’re going to have to listen to the archive to find out exactly what he said that had us in stitches.

We’re starting to have a growing concern about our producer Chandra.  How does she manage to outdo herself each and every week?  In the realm of drink making she knows no boundaries.  This week’s “Drink of the Week” is no exception.  I’m not sure how many of you will be scared by the name alone, but if you feel like you need a jump-start, kick-start or you just like to toe the line of life and death,  then this is the drink for you.  We present to you the  A.E.D (Automated External Defibrillator) <– Click the link for the recipe 

The Ask PDA letter is a case of self-perpetuating guilt a parent can feel when raising children.  We have become a society which overtly coddles its children under the guise of being protective and save them from the hardships of past generations.  I’m not saying that’s a bad thing to do, but parents have to be careful not to debilitate their offspring to the point of having a wrongly placed sense of entitlement.  One that may one day come back to smack you upside the head.  Our writer has apparently provide a great life for her two children.  They are both adults and both employed, yet she has never asked them to contribute to the finances of living in her house… excuse me “their” house.  Now as a retiree she needs help and believe it or not, her kids are unwilling to.  She is questioning whether of not she is being too harsh by asking them to help out or get out.  REALLY???

Thanks to our callers, guest panelists and our chat room participants for making this a great show. Keep sending those Tweets, Facebook Messages and emails.  We do it for you, but we couldn’t do it without you.

Next week, we decided to offer advice as to how we can all make some sense of the complications we are faced with in this seemingly mad mad world.  It may not be as difficult as you think… that is if you have given it any thought at all. The title of next’s week show… “Life – K.I.S.S.”.

~Peepin’ Shaun~ 

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Drink of the Week | 1-9-13

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Drink of the Week

HOW IN THE HELL does our Producer, Chandra  manages to top herself every time!!

Tune to “Has the World Gone Mad?!”

at

7p PT (9p CT/10p ET)

for some of the down right insanity happening in the world these days!

Trust me you will need something like this “Drink of the Week” during the show!!

Drink of the Week:

A.E.D (Automated External Defibrillator)

3/4 oz Gin
3/4 oz Champagne
3/4 oz Cointreau
3/4 oz fresh lemon juice
1 dash absinthe

Shake ingredients together with ice.

Strain into a chilled rocks glass and garnish with an orange twist, if desired.

Serve straight up.

“NEW YEAR–SAME CRAP!” | The Recap (originally aired 1-2-13)

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“NEW YEAR–SAME CRAP!” -  The Recap

Originally aired:

Wednesday, January 2nd, 2013

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HAPPY NEW YEAR!  It’s 2013… you made it!  Yet another year has passed and you’re now sitting there faced with all the false promises you’ve made to yourself.  That’s right you did it…you made some resolutions. How dare you attempt to change and better yourself each and every year. By the way, how’s that been working out for you?  Can you truly expect that overnight, when you toss away the old year’s calendar that you really get a new start?  Just because the new calendar is blank doesn’t mean you get a clean slate.  Slowly but surely day by day… wait scratch that. Rapidly day after day it will begin to fill up with all the crap you failed to rid yourself  of over the last 12 months, maybe even the last 12 years!  Now I know you mean well and have perhaps even convinced yourself that this year will be your year.  All because the clock struck twelve, some glittery orb descended from upon high and the skies above showered you with a warm illumination of fireworks.  You closed your eyes and made a wish.  Perhaps you even stole a kiss, but the fact of the matter is that when you awaken from your drunken stupor you’ll look at the little list you placed neatly beside your bed and say… “SHIT I’ll start this tomorrow!” Nothing has changed. You didn’t wake up in an alternate universe or another… better you.  No your reality is very much the same and the chances of you living up to those words scrawled across that piece of paper are slim, but not entirely impossible.

This week on PLAYING DEVIL’S ADVOCATE™ -Hosted by Ms. KiKi we’re discussing the top 10 New Year’s resolutions that people commonly make and then soon fail to accomplish.  What starts off as a blueprint for new behavior over the course of the year turns in to To-Do list for the first month of January.  By mid February it becomes a list of chores you will no doubt tear up into little pieces and go on about business as usual.  Well we’re going to help you extend your chances of keeping some of those resolutions, by giving you some basic guidelines to help make the most of your good intentions.  We’re calling this show   “NEW YEAR–SAME CRAP!”.

Ms. KiKi gave us a rundown of the 10 things people most often resolve to do each new year.  Sporty Spunky Angel and Peepin Shaun Amin (that’s me) chimed in with our perspectives as to why we believe people seem to fail.  The 3 of us then explored ways in which we can better our chances of success.  So here are the Top 10 New Year’s Resolutions.  How many of the them did you make?

10. Be more positive

9. Take up or restart an activity or hobby

8. Spend more time with family

7. Travel more

6. Improve work situation

5. Further education

4. Quit smoking

3. Improve health

2. Improve financial situation

1. Get fit/Work out

Great, you have the list. Now what the hell do you do with it? Before you can find solutions to some of these issues we suggested getting to the root of the problem first and working your way outward towards your goal. We gave some great advice as to how you can begin that process, but you’re going to have to listen to the archive to find out exactly what that is.  All I can tell you is that you’ll need to take baby steps and find someone to hold your hand and promise to never let go.  Good luck!

To celebrate the new year and to celebrate the accomplishments of our concoction making chat room Co-Host (Co-Ho for short), our producer, Chandra made a list of her very own. This week’s “Drink of the Week” are those voted as 2012′s Best Drinks.  See them in all their heavenly glory!

1. Natural Disaster series (November 2012)
   • Hurricane Nel 
   • Typhoon Chantel
   • Cyclone Chan
   • Tropical Storm Chelsea 
2. Bomb Pop Martini 7-11-12 
3. 4th of July FLAMING Shooter 
4. Death in a Glass 12-5-2012 
5. Bourbon Street Walker 10-17-12 

Honorable Mention: Spinning Piledriver 9-12-12

 

Keep up the great work Chandra!  Single-handedly you are making the world a better place… Seriously!

The Ask PDA letter was all about changing behavior.  A mother doesn’t seem to understand why her fourteen year old daughter feels like she is being smothered.  I mean how would you feel if you weren’t allowed to use any kitchen appliance without supervision?  Would you like it if you could never choose your own clothes?  Wouldn’t it suck if you never were allowed to have a sleepover? Wouldn’t you just love getting that call every hour on the hour from your mom when you are hanging out with a friend?  Is it socially dysfunctional to never be allowed any activity with the opposite sex?  Mom of course just thinks she’s being a good mom…a really good mom.  Somehow she doesn’t see any of this behavior as smothering.  Nope it’s all done out of love. Love, fear, paranoia and possibly even regret.  The world is a rough place. It’s best to prepare your child to understand how to deal with it and make informed choices on their own.  Mind you mistakes will be made, but that’s life.  It’s supposed to be an experience, not a lifetime daycare center.

Thanks to our callers, guest panelists and our chat room participants for making this a great show. Keep sending those Tweets, Facebook Messages and emails.  We do it for you, but we couldn’t do it without you.

Up next, we take a closer look at the world at large and talk about all the craziness that surfaces day after day.  While you’re out conquering those resolutions, the world around you seems to be spinning out of control. Join us next week  when we ask the question… “HAS THE WORLD GONE MAD??”.

~Peepin’ Shaun~ 

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Top 5 Drinks of the Year!

 

 

Looks like our producer is ringing in the new year with her own Drink countdown! Don’t miss NEW YEAR, SAME CRAP! on Playing Devil’s Advocate™ because there will not only be ONE “Drink of the Week” there will be a Top 5 Drink of the Week!!

SET A REMINDER NOW!

 

1. Natural Disaster Series (November 2012)

* Hurricane Nel  
* Typhoon Chantel 
* Cyclone Chan
* Tropical Storm Chelsea

2. Bomb Pop Martini 7-11-12
3. 4th of July FLAMING Shooter 7-4-11
4. Death in a Glass 12-5-2012
5. Bourbon Street Walker 10-17-12

Honorable Mention:
Spinning Piledriver 9-12-12

Drink of the Week | Playing Devil’s Advocate™ | 12-26-12

 

It’s the day after Christmas & we’ve had just enough

So our producer created a drink to fill up our cups!

Tune in for “Holiday Hangover“

at

7p PT (9p CT/10p ET)

for PDA’s “Drink of the Week”

and some Bah-humbug conversation!

Drink of the Week

Santa’s Little Helper

1 1/2 oz. Dark Rum
1/2 oz. Grand Marnier
2 oz. Hot Chocolate
1 tbsp Marshmallow Fluff
Shaved Chocolate

Instructions:
Fill a mug half way with hot chocolate add the Dark Rum and Grand Marnier , Stir and add Marshmallow Fluff and Shaved Chocolate to garnish.

Drink of the Week | 7-11-12

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Bomb Pop Martini

Endgame’s Bomb Pop-tini

2 oz Bacardi Razz
2 oz Blue Curacao
2 oz lemonade
Shake with ice. Pour into martini glass.

Drizzle grenadine down the side of the glass so that it settles in the bottom.

Drink of the Week | 7-4-12

4th of July Flaming Shooter

 

Happy 4th of July Folks!!! Our Producer has out done herself AGAIN!!!
We promised FIREWORKS for 2nite’s show & we ALWAYS deliver on our promises!!
Let me formally introduce you to Breaking Up–The Remix on Playing Devil’s Advocate™ ”Drink of the Night”

 

“ EndGame‘s 4th of July FLAMING Shooter”

Bottom Red Layer: Chambord or Framboise (or Grenadine)
Middle White Layer: Half and Half
Top Blue Layer: Blue Curacao (or you could dye vodka or rum with blue food coloring) You may also want to add a float of Goldschlager to get a golden gilttery firework effect.
Fill a shot glass about a third of the way full of the red drink.

Place a spoon, back side up, just above the top of the red liquid. Slowly pour the half-and-half over the back of the spoon. This will layer it over the red with minimal mixing.Use a clean spoon to repeat the process to layer the blue liquid over the white

I guarantee that if you have a few of these before & during the show you will see FIREWORKS FOR SURE!! 

 

7p PT (9p CT/10p ET)

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This week’s “Drink of the Week” is a barn burner; and since this week’s topic is “Follow the Message and NOT the Messenger” there is NO DOUBT what message our Producer has for all of the people who just blindly follow the leader with no regard to where they are being led!

Gather your ingredients, set a reminder & tune in for a great discussion at 7p PT (9p CT/ 10p ET)! Go now to: http://bit.ly/PDA6-12-13

~~Sit Yo Ass Down~~

1/2 oz Grain Alcohol
1/2 oz 151 Rum
1/4 oz Cinnamon Schnapps

Instructions:
Mix the Grain Alcohol and the Rum together in a shot glass.
Add the Cinnamon Schnapps last to give the shot a nice red color. Serve.
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