Wednesday, April 10, 2013
Last Wednesday the crew on Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi talked about how they would handle certain situations in What Would You Do! That show actually gave birth to this week’s topic of SECRETS! The whole crew was on board and this topic actually “turned up” the whole show, chat room and all. Coach KiKi kicked it off by laying down the fact that most SECRETS come from fear and dodging accountability and once she said that…we knew a few people would be taking turns on Ms. KiKi’s couch this week. STAY TUNED! Throughout the show we defined what a secret is, the common types, who they hurt and how to deal in the aftermath.
A Secret is defined as: Known by only a few; intentionally withheld from knowledge; conveying a desire to conceal.
Ms. KiKi started the conversation with the common mantra “What goes on in this house STAYS in this house”. I am sure most of us have heard this come up in our own homes growing up, and on the surface it is understandable that everybody doesn’t need to know our business, but taken to the extreme this could have the potential to hide away many skeletons and possibly perpetuate abuse. Our host led the charge by revealing her first family secret as an example how common mantras or traditions can be hurtful and extend tensions for generations. This admission led to Ms. KiKi lying on her own couch! Yes JUICY in the first 20 minutes!! Next, Sporty revisited the secret that was revealed by her mother last week in the chat room and broke it all the way down for us. Please LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES because what Sporty did to her sister has to be heard in live.
The crew continued with the family secrets and how southerners used labels to keep things on the down low. The terms “Special and Touched” were defined by the South’s dictionary. Shaun explained his own “shotgun wedding” and his attitude about that mentality. Sporty’s first poem suggested that she may be adopted but, for all regulars in the CHAT ROOM, we all know she is definitely Mama Marlene’s child! You have to LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES because Sporty spoke to soon about Mama Marlene’s absence.
Our producer out did herself with this week’s “Drink of the Week”, the “G14 Classified“. After a few sips, it will definitely have you spilling it all. If you were in the chat room this week you would have witnessed the effects first hand, because our producer, Chandra decided to be her own test dummy and apparently enjoyed the experience just a little too much!
Next Ms. KiKi revealed that her case of CRS (can’t remember sh*t), is what makes her the perfect secret keeper. It is at this point in the show that Sporty’s secret about her and Shaun, led KiKi to reference Mama Marlene and her “Boo“. If you don’t know who Mama Marlene’s boo is, you must LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES!! Other secrets discussed were addiction, lying by omission and spouses hiding things from one another. Shaun’s explanation of why we keep secrets or lie and the frequencies that humans vibrate on is a must listen. I personally love KiKi’s explanation as to why we should always deal in truth and why you can’t possibly say you’re lying to protect me.
Celebrity secrets were next on the agenda and touched on the commonly known ones like Arnold and the maid to Halle’s new baby. Seriously is that a secret? At that very moment FB Shaka, Mr. Daddy to Sporty, slid into the building. This could be the biggest secret of the night because Shaka and Mama Marlene show up at the same damn time! Please, Please, Please LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES! for the “special caller” who brought us clarification. Frankly, this caller alone may overshadow Facebook Shaka’s TOP 5, which was hilarious by the way.
Finally the “Ask PDA” letter was just as crazy and fell right in line. This week’s writer, in my opinion, is obviously confused about what priorities are, but Ms. KiKi and the crew tried to help in the form of advice. I’m sure Bi in the South is looking at the issue in a different light. By all means, PLEASE voice your opinion below after listening to the archives!
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