Wednesday, March 27, 2013
The crew dissected the term Sexy last week on Playing Devil’s Advocate – Hosted by Ms. KiKi , this week they kept it 100 by exploring INTERDEPENDENCE: WE ALL PLAY A ROLE! Even though the crew was light at the beginning of the show it kicked off with all the fire you expect each week. Our host Ms. KiKi started off on 10 about the subject, because she is simply tired of hearing women spew the misconception of “I’m an independent women I don’t need a man”. STOP IT, I say, STOP IT!
So before we go any further, let’s start by explaining the term INTERDEPENDENCE!
Interdependence is a relationship in which each member is mutually dependent on the others.
The key word in the definition is mutually. Each party in the relationship is dependent on the other to accomplish or reach a certain goal. Similar to the pendulum KiKi often refers to, on one end you have dependency, such as children depending on their parents while on the other end you have your extremist-“I don’t need anyone’s help” and this show is about that balance. KiKi gave a perfect example of that balance and it’s simple…PDA’s crew depends on each other every week to pull off a great show.
Surprisingly “Mr. Know it all”, Peeping Shaun and KiKi agree a great deal on this subject. LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to witness for yourself how they both believe that “Behind every great man is a great woman”. Well KiKi’s saying had a little twist and if you know the “Consummate Provocateur” you can pretty much guess her version. Of course this belief of a woman standing behind her man, jump started the conversations in the chat room. If that wasn’t enough KiKi’s next term “Submissive” exploded the chat room.
The opinions came from every angle. Shaun dislikes the saying “There are no good men left”, KiKi came back with “Women today don’t know how to act like ladies”. These comments led the conversation to the role reversal happening today with metrosexual men and their super independent female counterparts. The chat room offered some interesting comments about men wearing skirts…but to hear how it all came together; you know what you have to do…LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES!
The producer, Chandra stood tall on her soap box this week in the chat room and she has some serious thoughts on this subject, especially that bad word “submissive”. I was slightly confused about how the “Drink of the Week” tied into this week subject. However, after mixing up the “Soul Stealer” and knocking it back you really won’t care. Maybe Chandra should have had a few before the show then she wouldn’t have been so riled up. I agree with Shaun, Chandra didn’t create this week’s drink, her alter-ego, ENDGAME did!. Try it and let us know what you stole after a few.
After a few sips of RED, you know it’s not a flavor just a color, Kool-Aid Ms. KiKi had a few harsh words for women, “We are NOT equal to men…we are different!” It’s no big shocker that Shaun agreed we are different and there is a purpose for the difference and if he expected his woman to do x, y and z he would be labeled a chauvinist. And without missing a beat, KiKi countered with, I really want to agree with you, but I just need to know what I am agreeing to”. LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES, to find out what she agreed to.
Sporty joined the conversation with a list of things women can do that men absolutely cannot do. I was surprised at the length of the list. Once you LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES I’m sure you will be too! Rocky chimed in with his ONE job women can do that men can’t, but it turned out to be already on the list. To try and redeem himself he took a trip back in time before Ms. KiKi put on her coach hat and shared some tips on how a woman can harness her powers for good to get what she needs from her man, please LISTEN TO THE ARCHIVES to learn how. Then just like clockwork, Facebook Shaka came through with a rant that you definitely can’t be eating or drinking while listening.
This week’s “Ask PDA” letter once again had our host fired up! I am so sure the author did not expect the feedback that was offered, but sometimes the unexpected is the best teacher. So, PLEASE voice your opinion below after listening to the archives!
Join us next week as we revisit a show topic that was a fan favorite… “WHAT WOULD YOU DO!”
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